కఠినచిత్తు మనసు కరగింపగారాదు

kathinachittu manasu karagimpagaradu

Translation

A hard-hearted person's mind cannot be melted.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe individuals who are emotionally cold, stubborn, or lacking in empathy. It suggests that no matter how much effort one puts into pleading, reasoning, or appealing to their emotions, such people will not change their mind or show compassion. It is often used as a cautionary advice to avoid wasting effort on those who are fundamentally unfeeling.

Related Phrases

Rain during the Chitta star period falls wherever it pleases.

This proverb is based on agricultural observations regarding the 'Chitta' nakshatram (a specific period in the lunar calendar). It suggests that rainfall during this time is highly unpredictable and localized, falling in one spot while leaving a nearby area dry. It is used metaphorically to describe situations that are inconsistent, whimsical, or depend entirely on the unpredictable will of a person or nature.

An unhappy match.

This expression refers to a union or marriage entered into without the consent or emotional willingness of the individuals involved. It is used to describe a forced relationship or a task undertaken without any genuine interest or passion.

No one on this earth can fix or change another person's mind.

This expression highlights the inherent difficulty of changing a person's fundamental nature, thoughts, or stubborn will. It is used to convey that while one can offer advice or guidance, the ultimate control over a person's mind lies with themselves, and external attempts to 'correct' it are often futile.

Will a dog-like mind let you sit still?

This expression compares the human mind to a restless dog that is constantly moving, wandering, and seeking distractions. It is used to describe the nature of a person who lacks focus, mental peace, or the ability to stay still in one place or on one task.

Word is harsh, heart is soft

This expression is used to describe a person who speaks bluntly or harshly on the outside but is actually kind-hearted and compassionate on the inside. It is similar to the English idiom 'His bark is worse than his bite.'

To maintain silence is to not give one's heart (disapproval).

This expression suggests that silence is often a sign of disapproval or lack of interest, rather than agreement. It is used in contexts where someone's quietness indicates that they do not like or consent to a proposal or situation.

If a heart breaks it can be mended, but if a clay pot breaks it cannot be joined back.

This proverb is often used in a reverse or comparative sense to highlight the permanence of certain damages. While modern variations sometimes swap the subjects, the traditional wisdom suggests that physical objects like a shattered clay pot are beyond repair, whereas human relationships and hearts (emotions) can potentially be healed through effort and time. It is used to emphasize caution in one's actions and words to avoid irreparable damage.

A calf that is habituated to the cow will not stay away; a cow habituated to its calf will not stay away.

This proverb describes an inseparable bond or a reciprocal addiction between two parties. It is used to illustrate situations where two people or entities are so accustomed to each other's presence, support, or company that they cannot function or stay apart independently. It can also refer to a cycle of mutual dependency.

If the heart agrees, she is Malli; if the heart does not agree, she is Elli.

This expression highlights how human perception and relationships are entirely dependent on one's mindset or mood. When you like someone or are in a good mood, you treat them with respect (Malli - a respectful name); when you are displeased or lose interest, you treat the same person with disregard (Elli - a derogatory or casual way to address someone). It is used to describe fickle-mindedness or how subjective feelings dictate one's behavior toward others.

A broken heart cannot be mended.

This expression is used to describe a situation where trust is shattered or deep emotional hurt is caused. Just as a crushed object cannot be restored to its original state, once a person's heart or spirit is broken by betrayal or severe disappointment, the relationship or their mental peace can never truly be the same again.