కొప్పు ఉంటేనేగా పూలు పెట్టుకునేది

koppu untenega pulu pettukunedi

Translation

Only if there is a hair bun can one wear flowers.

Meaning

This proverb highlights that basic requirements or resources must be present before one can think about luxuries or secondary additions. It is used to suggest that a foundation or a primary asset is necessary for any further adornment or progress.

Related Phrases

What does it matter whether a dead man's head lie towards the east or towards the west ?

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person is beyond help, or when a loss is so absolute that minor details and formalities no longer matter. It suggests that once a core purpose or life is gone, worrying about trivial arrangements or insignificant consequences is futile.

Even if you compete, compete for something that is worth getting branded for.

This proverb suggests that if one chooses to compete or strive for something, it should be for a prize or goal that is truly valuable and worth the sacrifice or effort involved. It discourages wasting energy on trivial competitions.

Butter won't come out unless the finger is curved.

This proverb is used to say that some tasks cannot be achieved through straightforward or gentle means; one must use a bit of cunning, force, or a change in tactics to get the job done. It is similar to the English expression 'Sometimes you have to play dirty to get what you want'.

If there is hair, it may be dressed in any fashion.

This proverb conveys that if you possess the fundamental resources or basic requirements, you can achieve any desired result or style. It is often used to suggest that as long as one has health or wealth (the foundation), they can manage their life in various ways.

If you have means, you can do any thing you like.

The husband one is married to, the jewelry one is wearing.

This expression highlights the items or people that truly belong to a person and provide real security or status. It is used to emphasize that only what is legally yours or physically in your possession can be relied upon in times of need or social standing.

When the belly cried for food, the hair cried for flowers.

This proverb describes a situation where there is a stark contrast between basic needs and superficial desires. It is used when someone asks for luxuries or trivial things while another person is struggling for basic survival or facing a serious crisis.

'The rubbing is for me, and the applying is for you,' he said.

This expression is used to describe a situation where one person does all the hard work or labor (the 'rubbing' or preparation), while another person enjoys the final benefit or luxury (the 'applying' of the balm/paste). It highlights an unfair distribution of work versus reward.

When a thief who steals and eats was taken as a partner, he stole everything and hid it in his bundle.

This proverb warns against trusting a person with a known history of dishonesty or theft. It implies that if you enter into a partnership or trust someone who is habitually untrustworthy, you shouldn't be surprised when they eventually betray you or steal your belongings. It is used to describe situations where someone suffers a loss due to their own poor judgment in choosing associates.

Where there is sin there will be fear, where there is low ground there will be water.

This proverb highlights natural consequences. Just as water naturally flows and settles in low-lying areas (slopes), guilt or fear naturally follows a person who has committed a wrong act. It is used to describe how a guilty conscience is always fearful of being caught or punished.

When a peer wore a gold border, the village woman hanged herself.

This proverb describes extreme envy and unhealthy competition. It is used to mock someone who tries to imitate others' prosperity beyond their means or feels so much jealousy toward a peer's success that they resort to self-destruction or extreme frustration.