ముడివేశాక ముండయినా ముతకయినా తప్పదు
mudiveshaka mundayina mutakayina tappadu
Once the knot is tied, whether it is a widow or a coarse person, one must bear it.
This proverb signifies that once a commitment or marriage is finalized, one must accept the consequences and the person involved, regardless of their flaws or the difficulties that arise. It is used to describe situations where a decision is irreversible and one must fulfill their responsibility despite dissatisfaction.
Related Phrases
ముండ చావనూ చావదు, ముట్టు తప్పనూ తప్పదు
munda chavanu chavadu, muttu tappanu tappadu
The widow neither dies nor does her menstrual cycle stop.
This proverb is used to describe a persistent, annoying problem or a person who remains a constant nuisance without any resolution. It refers to a situation that is stuck in a stagnant, unpleasant state where there is neither an end to the trouble nor any relief from the daily difficulties associated with it.
భాషకు తగిన వేషం ఉండాలి
bhashaku tagina vesham undali
The attire should match the language.
This expression emphasizes consistency and appropriateness in one's conduct. It suggests that a person's outward appearance or actions (vesham) should align with their speech or status (bhasha). It is used to advise someone to act or dress according to the context, profession, or the words they speak.
ఏరు ముందా ఏరువాక ముందా
eru munda eruvaka munda
Is the river first or the plowing festival first?
This is a rhetorical expression or a riddle-like saying often used to discuss the cyclical nature of things or to question priorities. 'Eruvaka' refers to the traditional festival marking the beginning of the plowing season. It highlights the deep connection between the arrival of rains (rivers) and the start of agricultural activity.
రాగల శని రామేశ్వరము పోయినా తప్పదు
ragala shani rameshvaramu poyina tappadu
Even if you perform a pilgrimage to Râmêśvaram, the pre- destinated evil will not fail to overtake you.
This proverb is used to convey that one's destiny or the consequences of their fate cannot be escaped simply by changing locations or seeking divine intervention. It highlights the inevitability of certain hardships and is often used when someone tries to run away from their problems only to find them following them anyway.
బిడ్డయినా పడ్డ అయినా పుట్టాక విడిచి పెడతామా?
biddayina padda ayina puttaka vidichi pedatama?
Whether it is a child or a calf, do we abandon them once they are born?
This expression is used to emphasize that once a project is started, a responsibility is taken, or a commitment is made, one must see it through regardless of the quality or the difficulties involved. It suggests that once something belongs to you or is your creation, you cannot simply discard it.
విందు అయినా మూడు నాళ్ళు, మందు అయినా మూడు నాళ్ళు
vindu ayina mudu nallu, mandu ayina mudu nallu
Whether it is a feast or medicine, it should only last for three days.
This proverb emphasizes that anything in life should be done in moderation and within a specific timeframe. Just as a guest or a feast becomes burdensome after three days, or medicine loses its purpose or becomes harmful if taken too long, everything has an optimal duration. It is used to advise someone not to overstay their welcome or overdo a particular activity.
మూలవాన ముంచక తీరదు
mulavana munchaka tiradu
A rain from the corner will not leave without drowning.
This expression refers to 'Moola Vana' (rains during the Moola Nakshatram period) which are traditionally believed to be persistent and heavy. Metaphorically, it is used to describe a situation, problem, or consequence that is inevitable and bound to cause significant impact or trouble once it begins. It implies that certain events must run their full course before they subside.
నెత్తిన మూటకు సుంకమడిగినట్లు
nettina mutaku sunkamadiginatlu
Like asking for a tax on the bundle carried on one's own head
This expression describes an act of extreme greed or unreasonable demands. It refers to a situation where a person who is already struggling with a heavy burden is further troubled by someone demanding taxes or fees for that very labor. It is used when authorities or individuals impose unfair costs on basic necessities or hard-earned work.
ఆకాశానికి వెంట్రుక ముడివేసినట్లు
akashaniki ventruka mudivesinatlu
Like tying a hair to the sky
This expression is used to describe an impossible or extremely difficult task that requires extraordinary precision or is practically unattainable. It often refers to attempting something that has no solid foundation or trying to achieve a goal through highly improbable means.
కాటికి పోయినా కాసు తప్పదు.
katiki poyina kasu tappadu.
Even if one goes to the cremation ground, the coin is inevitable.
This proverb highlights the persistent nature of greed or the inevitable burden of taxes and expenses. It refers to the tradition of placing a coin on a deceased person's body or paying a fee at the funeral pyre, implying that financial obligations or worldly attachments follow a person until the very end.