నిండి దరిజేర నీయదు గుండ్లకమ్మ, కలిగి తిననీయదు గంపకమ్మ

nindi darijera niyadu gundlakamma, kaligi tinaniyadu gampakamma

Translation

When full, Gundlakamma river doesn't let you reach the shore; when possessed, Gampakamma doesn't let you eat.

Meaning

This proverb describes two types of misfortune: one caused by natural forces and the other by a miserly nature. It compares the Gundlakamma river, which becomes impassable when flooded, to a stingy person (metaphorically referred to as Gampakamma) who, despite having plenty of wealth or resources, refuses to spend them or allow others to enjoy them.

Related Phrases

The arrogance of an elephant in rut will not let it live.

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It doesn't let you cook and see, and it doesn't stop burning.

This expression is used to describe a problematic, irritable, or difficult person or situation that is constantly bothersome. It refers to a fire that is too smokey to allow cooking but too stubborn to go out, representing a state of constant annoyance that neither resolves nor allows progress.

If a cigar is lit, it won't let you talk.

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The co-wife doesn't let one thrive, and the fishhook doesn't let the bait rise.

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The dog in the manger won't eat the grass, and won't let others eat it.

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Even if the sky breaks or an eye is lost, you will not stop doing it.

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A person who has wealth but does not know how to enjoy it is like a basket lid.

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Cheapness doesn't let you buy; dearness doesn't let you sell.

This proverb describes the irony of human indecisiveness in the market. When prices are very low (cheap), people suspect the quality and hesitate to buy. Conversely, when prices are high (dear), people hesitate to sell because they hope for even higher prices or fear they won't be able to replace the item. It is used to describe a state of perpetual hesitation or missed opportunities.

The Gundlakamma river when full doesn't let you reach the shore; a Gampakamama (miserly person) despite having wealth won't let you eat.

This proverb draws a comparison between a river in flood and a person with a stingy nature. Just as a overflowing river becomes impassable and dangerous, preventing one from reaching safety, a miserly or greedy person, despite possessing abundance, ensures that neither they nor others can enjoy or benefit from those resources.