తీపుల మాటలకు వీపులు గుంజుతవి.

tipula matalaku vipulu gunjutavi.

Translation

Sweet words cause the back to be thrashed.

Meaning

This proverb warns that sweet talk or flattery can often lead to trouble or physical punishment later. It is used to advise caution when someone is being overly complimentary or deceptive, as their words might lead one into a trap or a situation resulting in severe consequences.

Related Phrases

Will a wild tiger show mercy to flesh?

This expression is used to describe a person who is naturally cruel or predatory, implying that one cannot expect kindness or mercy from someone whose basic nature is to cause harm. Just as a tiger will not refrain from eating meat, a wicked person will not refrain from their bad habits.

Vows during danger, forgetfulness during wealth.

This proverb describes human nature where people pray fervently and make many promises to God or others when they are in trouble, but completely forget those promises once they become wealthy or their problems are solved. It is used to criticize ungratefulness or fair-weather devotion.

Empty clouds flash more lightning; a barren cow bellows more.

This proverb is used to describe people who lack substance or capability but make a lot of noise or boast excessively. Similar to the English idiom 'Empty vessels make the most noise', it suggests that those who talk the most or show off frequently are often the ones who achieve or contribute the least.

Spoken words are worse than heard words

This expression highlights the power and potential danger of speech. While listening to something bad is passive, speaking ill of someone or spreading rumors is an active, more harmful deed. It serves as a reminder to be mindful of what one says, as spoken words can cause more damage than what one simply hears.

Man has no sense of truth or purity, pull him, pull him into the middle of the river - said the crocodile.

This proverb highlights the belief that humans can be ungrateful or deceitful despite being helped. It originates from a folktale where a crocodile helps a man, but the man tries to harm it later. It is used to describe situations where someone displays extreme ingratitude or when dealing with a person whose word cannot be trusted.

Do not trust honey; it has too much sweetness.

This proverb warns against being easily deceived by excessively sweet words or flattering behavior. It suggests that someone who is overly nice or charming may have hidden motives or may be hiding a bitter truth behind their 'sweet' exterior.

If the son-in-law's sword is sharp on two sides, his sister's sword is sharp on six sides.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where one person is clever or troublesome, but their close associate or relative is even more cunning or difficult to deal with. It highlights a hierarchy of shrewdness or mischief within a group.

Malli for words, Elli for deeds

This proverb describes someone who is very vocal, boastful, or makes grand promises (Malli) but is completely absent or disappears when it comes time to actually do the work (Elli). It is used to criticize people who talk a lot but never follow through with action.

If it cools down by the time the bag is opened, speech will be lost by the time the bundle is opened.

This expression is used to describe excessive delays that render a result useless or irrelevant. It suggests that if a process takes too long, the original excitement, necessity, or even the ability to react (like being speechless from exhaustion or hunger) disappears by the time the goal is reached.

Lick your four fingers and tuck in your waist.

This proverb is an advice on frugality and self-reliance. It suggests that one should be content with a simple meal (represented by licking the four fingers used for eating) and then tighten one's belt (tucking the waist) to get back to work. It emphasizes living within one's means and the importance of hard work over indulgence.