తీటమ్మ తీటమ్మ నీ నొసలు ఏమయింది అంటే, తిరుమణి పెడితే పొక్కింది అందిట

titamma titamma ni nosalu emayindi ante, tirumani pedite pokkindi andita

Translation

When asked 'Teetamma, what happened to your forehead?', she replied that it blistered because of the sacred vermilion.

Meaning

Used to describe a person who makes lame or deceptive excuses to hide their own faults or bad habits. 'Teetamma' implies someone with a restless or troublesome nature who likely injured herself through her own mischief but blames a harmless, sacred mark (Tirumani) to gain sympathy or avoid blame.

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