వెన్న పుచ్చుకొని వేసినవారిని రాయి పుచ్చుకొని వేతురా?
venna puchchukoni vesinavarini rayi puchchukoni vetura?
Will you throw stones on those that threw butter ? Returning evil for good.
This expression emphasizes the importance of responding to kindness with kindness, rather than with hostility or ingratitude. It is used to suggest that if someone treats you gently or does you a favor (symbolized by butter), it is morally wrong to respond with harshness or harm (symbolized by a stone).
Related Phrases
ఇచ్చినమ్మ ఈగ, పుచ్చుకొన్నమ్మ పులి
ichchinamma iga, puchchukonnamma puli
The giver is a housefly, the receiver is a tiger.
This proverb highlights the irony and unfairness in certain transactions or interpersonal dynamics. The person who gives or lends something is often timid, weak, or hesitant (like a fly) when asking for it back, while the person who received it becomes aggressive, demanding, or fierce (like a tiger) when it is time to return the favor or the item.
సన్యాసం పుచ్చుకొన్నా కావడి బరువు తప్పలేదు.
sanyasam puchchukonna kavadi baruvu tappaledu.
Even after taking up sanyasa (renunciation), the weight of the carrying pole did not leave.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone changes their profession or lifestyle to escape burdens, only to find that their responsibilities or hardships remain the same. It signifies that changing one's external status doesn't necessarily solve internal or inevitable problems.
ఇచ్చి పుచ్చుకొని మొగుడి వీపెల్లా తడివినట్టు.
ichchi puchchukoni mogudi vipella tadivinattu.
She gave it, took it back again, and looked on her husband's back for it.
This proverb describes a situation where someone performs a transaction or gives something, but then immediately starts calculating, inspecting, or being overly suspicious and meticulous about what they get in return. It implies a lack of trust or an obsessive nature in dealings, often used when someone tries to find faults or re-evaluate a deal that is already done.
ఇచ్చిపుచ్చుకొని మొగుడి వీపెల్లా తడివినట్లు
ichchipuchchukoni mogudi vipella tadivinatlu
Like feeling the husband's back after giving and taking.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone performs a task or a transaction with excessive, unnecessary thoroughness or repetitive checking, often out of suspicion, obsession, or to ensure they haven't lost out. It implies a sense of redundant verification or over-scrutinizing something that is already settled.
నా వేలు పుచ్చుకొని నా కన్నే పొడిచినావా?
na velu puchchukoni na kanne podichinava?
Have you poked my eye with my own finger? To confute a man's reasoning with his own arguments.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone whom you helped, nurtured, or supported ends up causing you harm or betraying you. It is similar to the English idiom 'to bite the hand that feeds you.'
చెయ్యి పుచ్చుకొని లాగితే రాలేదుగాని, ఇంటికి చీటి వ్రాశాడట.
cheyyi puchchukoni lagite raledugani, intiki chiti vrashadata.
She didn't come even when he held her hand and pulled her, but he wrote a note to the house (inviting her).
This proverb is used to mock someone who attempts a subtle or formal approach after failing at a much more direct or forceful attempt. It highlights the absurdity of expecting success through a minor gesture when a major effort has already failed. It is often applied to people who try to maintain formalities or 'follow procedure' after they have already been rejected or have failed in a blatant way.
అత్తి పూచినట్టు
atti puchinattu
Like the fig blossoming.
This expression is used to describe something that happens very rarely or an event that is almost never seen. Since the flowers of a fig tree are contained within the fruit and are not visible to the naked eye, it implies an occurrence that is a rare sight or a unique phenomenon.
This tree ( Ficus Glomerata ) bears no apparent blossoms. That is as likely as to see a hog fly.
కుచ్చు కుదుటిలో పెడితే, విచ్చుకొని వీధిలోకి వచ్చినట్లు
kuchchu kudutilo pedite, vichchukoni vidhiloki vachchinatlu
Like a tassel placed in a fixed spot that unfurls and reaches the street
This expression refers to a situation where a secret or a private matter, despite attempts to keep it contained or 'tucked in,' spreads rapidly and becomes public knowledge. It is used to describe how certain information or rumors are impossible to hide once they start leaking out.
పైన పటారం, లోపల లోటారం
paina pataram, lopala lotaram
Shiny on the outside, hollow on the inside
This expression describes something that looks attractive, grand, or high-quality on the surface but is actually empty, defective, or worthless inside. It is used to point out hypocrisy, superficial beauty, or deceptive appearances.
తద్దినము కొని తెచ్చుకొన్నట్టు.
taddinamu koni techchukonnattu.
Buying a Taddinam. Bringing difficulties upon one's own head.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily invites trouble or creates a headache for themselves by their own actions or choices. It is similar to the English expression 'to go looking for trouble' or 'asking for it.'
* Alterâ manu scabunt, altera ferunt.