ఆడబిడ్డమ్మా! అంత్రపిశాచమ్మా! వండే ఇంటిలోనికి తీసికెళ్ళి మండే కొటికంచు పెట్టు.

adabiddamma! antrapishachamma! vande intiloniki tisikelli mande kotikanchu pettu.

Translation

Oh sister-in-law! Oh intestinal demon! Take her into the kitchen and put a burning log (torch) in her face.

Meaning

This is a sarcastic or satirical folk saying (sameta) that highlights the traditional friction or bitter rivalries that sometimes occurred between a daughter-in-law and a sister-in-law (husband's sister) in joint families. It uses hyperbolic language ('intestinal demon') to describe the animosity and the desire to drive the person away from the household.

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