అల్లుడికి పెట్టు, ఇల్లాలికి గుట్టు.
alludiki pettu, illaliki guttu.
Serve the son-in-law, keep the secret for the wife.
This proverb emphasizes the importance of maintaining family dignity and harmony. It suggests that one should treat guests (like the son-in-law) with great hospitality while keeping internal family matters or hardships private to protect the wife's (or the household's) reputation.
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రోగం రట్టు, సంసారం గుట్టు.
rogam rattu, samsaram guttu.
Disease is to be revealed, family matters are to be kept secret.
This proverb advises that health issues should be disclosed openly to get the right treatment and support, whereas family matters or domestic conflicts should be kept private to maintain dignity and harmony. It is used when someone is being too secretive about their health or too open about their private family disputes.
బడికి బెత్తం మడికి గెత్తం
badiki bettam madiki gettam
A cane for the school and manure for the field.
This proverb emphasizes the importance of discipline and nourishment for growth. Just as a field needs fertilizer (manure) to yield a good crop, a student needs discipline (symbolized by the cane) to acquire knowledge and character. It is used to explain that different environments require specific tools or methods to produce the best results.
మడికి గట్టు, మాటకు గుట్టు.
madiki gattu, mataku guttu.
An embankment for the field, a secret for the word.
Just as an embankment (bund) is necessary to hold water and protect a field, a sense of secrecy or discretion is essential for maintaining the value and integrity of a conversation or a promise. It emphasizes the importance of confidentiality and thinking before speaking.
తిండికి ముందెత్తు, పనికి వెనకెత్తు
tindiki mundettu, paniki venakettu
First in line for food, last in line for work.
This proverb is used to describe a person who is lazy and irresponsible. It characterizes someone who shows great enthusiasm and haste when it is time to eat, but avoids or lags behind when there is work to be done.
చేనికి గట్టు, ఊరికి కట్టు ఉండాలి.
cheniki gattu, uriki kattu undali.
A field needs a bund, and a village needs discipline.
This proverb emphasizes the importance of boundaries and rules. Just as a field requires a bund (gattu) to retain water and protect the crop, a community or village requires collective discipline and social order (kattu) to function harmoniously and remain united. It is used to stress the need for regulation in any organized system.
పొడి గుట్టు పంట రట్టు
podi guttu panta rattu
Dryness is a secret, but the harvest is a public announcement.
This proverb suggests that while a farmer's struggles or the initial dry conditions of the soil might be kept private, the eventual success (or failure) of the harvest is visible to everyone in the village. It is used to imply that results eventually reveal the truth of one's efforts.
ఇంటికి ఒక గుప్పెడు బియ్యం, ఇల్లాలికి పదిపుట్లు
intiki oka guppedu biyyam, illaliki padiputlu
A handful of rice for the house, but ten 'putlus' for the housewife.
This proverb is used to describe a person who behaves very stingily when it comes to family or household needs but is extremely extravagant and spends lavishly on their own personal desires or luxuries. It highlights the hypocrisy of neglecting responsibilities while indulging oneself.
కాపురం గుట్టు, రోగం రట్టు
kapuram guttu, rogam rattu
Family life should be a secret, while a disease should be made known.
This proverb advises that private family matters or domestic issues should be kept confidential within the home to maintain dignity. Conversely, an illness should be disclosed openly so that one can seek help, advice, or medical treatment from others.
ఇంటింటికీ గుట్టు, మడికీ గట్టు
intintiki guttu, madiki gattu
Every house has its secrets, every field has its bunds.
This proverb emphasizes that every family or household has private matters or internal problems that should remain confidential. Just as a 'gattu' (bund/embankment) defines and protects the boundaries of a field, 'guttu' (secrecy/privacy) protects the dignity and reputation of a family.
స్వర్గానికి బెత్తెడు ఎడం
svarganiki bettedu edam
A hand-span distance from heaven
This expression is used to describe a state of extreme joy, pride, or elation where someone feels like they are on top of the world. It is often used to describe someone who is acting overly arrogant or is so happy that they feel they have almost reached heaven.