ఆయనే ఉంటే మంగలి ఎందుకు?

ayane unte mangali enduku?

Translation

If he (the husband) were there, why would we need a barber?

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a situation where if the primary person or the necessary resource were available, one wouldn't have to seek an alternative or inferior help. It is often used to highlight a lack of self-sufficiency or the absence of a key person that forces one to depend on others.

Related Phrases

If he were here, he would at least stitch the leaf platter.

This proverb is used to describe someone who was unproductive or useless while alive, but is now being remembered with exaggerated importance or false hope by others. It mocks the act of attributing potential skills or value to someone after they are gone, when in reality, they contributed very little.

Badarayana relationship

This expression is used to describe a forced, far-fetched, or imaginary connection between two unrelated things or people. It refers to an illogical attempt to establish a relationship where none naturally exists.

[ Like a widow saying ] " if he were alive, he would at least call the barber."

This expression is used to describe a person who is extremely talkative or craves company to such an extent that they would strike up a conversation with anyone available, regardless of their status or the relevance of the topic, just to avoid being alone or silent.

This is a reproach to the husband as being a useless fellow only fit to be employed as a messenger, and is also a joke, as the widow only, and not the wife, requires the services of a barber, to shave her head.

Like lamenting that if he were alive, he would have at least called for the barber.

This expression describes a situation where a person is mourning a loss (usually a husband) but focuses on trivial or irrelevant inconveniences instead of the actual tragedy. It is used to mock people who pretend to grieve but are actually thinking about their own minor needs or who display misplaced priorities during a crisis.

Putting on the wedding cord at sunrise, and taking it off when Venus rises. In the morning a bride, at night a widow.

This expression refers to a short-lived marriage or a relationship that ends almost immediately after it begins. It is used to describe situations that are extremely temporary, unstable, or where a commitment is broken shortly after being made.

The Jangama's rhythm and the Dasari's music

This expression refers to a situation where two different people or groups are working together in an uncoordinated, chaotic, or mismatched manner. It is used to describe a lack of synchronization or harmony in a joint effort.

By mildness or severity. If one does not answer, the other must be tried.

This expression refers to a strategy of using both persuasion (friendly approach) and intimidation (threats) to get something done. It is equivalent to the English idiom 'by hook or by crook' or 'the carrot and the stick' approach.

If my husband had masculinity, why would I need the neighbor's company?

This is a bold proverb used to describe a situation where someone seeks external help or a substitute only because the person who is supposed to be responsible or capable is failing to fulfill their duty. It highlights that if one's own resources or people were effective, there would be no need to depend on outsiders.

When one woman said only her husband could read what he wrote, another replied that even her husband couldn't read what he himself wrote.

This is a humorous Telugu proverb used to describe extremely illegible or bad handwriting. It mocks a situation where a person's writing is so poor that not even the author can decipher it later. It is used in contexts where someone tries to show off their unique skill or work, only to be outdone by someone else's even more chaotic or incompetent version.

If the master is here, why is there a need for the barber?

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person, out of excessive grief or a specific state of mind, decides to shave their own head or perform a task themselves, rendering the professional (the barber) unnecessary. In a broader sense, it refers to someone taking matters into their own hands in an unconventional or desperate way, or a situation where the main person's presence/actions make others redundant.