బగబగమను వాని పంచన నుండవచ్చునుగాని, నాలిముచ్చు నట్టింట నుండరాదు
bagabagamanu vani panchana nundavachchunugani, nalimuchchu nattinta nundaradu
One can stay in the veranda of a short-tempered person, but should not live in the house of a deceitful person.
It is better to deal with someone who is openly angry or short-tempered because their feelings are transparent, whereas a deceitful or hypocritical person (who hides their true intentions) is much more dangerous to live with or trust.
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పెద్ద పులి యెదటనయినా పడవచ్చునుగాని, నగరి వారి యెదట పడరాదు.
pedda puli yedatanayina padavachchunugani, nagari vari yedata padaradu.
You may face a royal tiger but you should not face a go- vernment official.
This proverb highlights the historical fear and unpredictability of government authority and bureaucracy. It suggests that while a wild animal is a known danger, the complications, legal troubles, and harassment one might face from officials or the state can be far more ruinous and difficult to escape.
నిజమునకు నింద వచ్చునుగాని, అవమానము రాదు
nijamunaku ninda vachchunugani, avamanamu radu
Truth may attract blame, but it will not lead to disgrace.
This proverb emphasizes that speaking the truth might lead to temporary criticism or accusations from others who are uncomfortable with it, but ultimately, the person remains honorable. It suggests that while one might be blamed for being blunt or honest, their character remains untarnished in the long run, unlike the shame that follows a lie.
చచ్చినవాని తల తూర్పున ఉంటేనేమి పడమట ఉంటేనేమి
chachchinavani tala turpuna untenemi padamata untenemi
What does it matter if a dead person's head is towards the east or the west?
This proverb expresses indifference toward trivial details or formalities when the outcome is already final or disastrous. It is used to suggest that once something is completely lost or finished, the minor circumstances surrounding it no longer carry any significance.
ఎత్తుకుంటే చంకలో ఉండదు, దించితే దిగువన ఉండదు.
ettukunte chankalo undadu, dinchite diguvana undadu.
If picked up, it won't stay in the armpit; if put down, it won't stay on the ground.
This proverb describes a highly restless, fickle, or hyperactive person (often a child) who cannot find comfort or stability anywhere. It is used to characterize something that is difficult to manage or someone who is constantly dissatisfied regardless of their situation.
గబగబా అరచేవాడి పంచ చేరవచ్చును గానీ, నేలముచ్చోడి కడప తొక్కరాదు
gabagaba arachevadi pancha cheravachchunu gani, nelamuchchodi kadapa tokkaradu
One may seek shelter in the porch of a loud-mouthed person, but one should never step over the threshold of a silent schemer.
This proverb warns that people who express their anger loudly and instantly (gabagaba arachevadu) are generally transparent and harmless once their outburst is over. However, one should be extremely wary of 'nelamuchodu'—those who remain silent, keep their head down, and secretly harbor grudges or plot against others. It is safer to deal with an open critic than a silent enemy.
బగబగమను వాని పంచనుండ వచ్చునుగాని, నాలిముచ్చు నట్టింట నుండరాదు.
bagabagamanu vani panchanunda vachchunugani, nalimuchchu nattinta nundaradu.
You may live in the verandah of a hot-tempered man's house but you should not dwell in the middle of the house of a man who conceals his resentment.
This proverb contrasts the behavior of an openly angry or short-tempered person with that of a sly, manipulative person. It suggests that while a hot-tempered person may be loud or harsh, their feelings are transparent and predictable. In contrast, a deceitful person (Nalimuchu) hides their true intentions and can cause much more harm from within. It is used to advise that honesty, even if blunt, is better than hidden malice.
బలవంతుని పంచనుండవచ్చునుగాని, నాలిముచ్చు నట్టింటనుండరాదు
balavantuni panchanundavachchunugani, nalimuchchu nattintanundaradu
One can live under the protection of a powerful person, but one should not live in the house of a deceitful person.
This proverb highlights the danger of untrustworthy and treacherous people. While a powerful person might be intimidating, their actions are often predictable or manageable. However, a 'naalimuchu' (a double-dealer or a person with a hidden agenda) is far more dangerous because their betrayal comes from within the home, making it impossible to find peace or safety.
ముండమొయ్య వచ్చునుగాని, నింద మొయ్యరాదు
mundamoyya vachchunugani, ninda moyyaradu
One can bear being a widow, but one cannot bear being blamed (shamed).
This is a powerful traditional saying emphasizing that a person's reputation and honor are more important than any physical or social hardship. While widowhood (historically considered a great misfortune) is endurable, the burden of a false accusation or a stain on one's character is considered unbearable and worse than death or extreme misery.
నాలిముచ్చువాణ్ణి, నీళ్ళు నమిలేవాణ్ణి నమ్మరాదు
nalimuchchuvanni, nillu namilevanni nammaradu
Do not trust a sneaky person or someone who chews water.
This proverb warns against trusting people who hide their true nature. A 'sneaky person' refers to someone cunning, while 'chewing water' is a metaphor for someone who acts overly innocent, hesitant, or behaves unnaturally to deceive others. It implies that people who are not straightforward or appear too good to be true should be approached with caution.
మున్నూరు శిఖలైనా కూడవచ్చునుగాని, మూడు కొప్పులు కూడరాదు.
munnuru shikhalaina kudavachchunugani, mudu koppulu kudaradu.
Three hundred male tufts can coexist, but three female buns cannot.
This traditional proverb suggests that while a large number of men (symbolized by 'shikha' or tufts) can work together or live in harmony, even a small number of women (symbolized by 'koppu' or hair buns) often find it difficult to coexist without conflict or disagreements. It is typically used to remark on domestic friction or the perceived difficulty of managing multiple women in a single household.