బతుకనేరని బిడ్డ బారెడుండు

batukanerani bidda baredundu

Translation

A child who doesn't know how to survive grows to be a fathom long.

Meaning

This proverb describes a person who lacks practical life skills or common sense despite being physically grown or having significant resources. It is used to mock someone who is old enough or 'big' enough to be capable, yet remains helpless, lazy, or foolish in managing their own affairs.

Related Phrases

The child who does not survive is as long as a hand-span.

This proverb is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities, beauty, or potential of someone or something that was lost or is no longer available. It is similar to saying 'the one that got away was the biggest fish.'

A tank with a weak embankment fills in an hour; a child who will not survive grows a fathom long.

This proverb describes things that show sudden, abnormal growth or success but lack a solid foundation to sustain it. Just as a tank with weak walls fills up too fast only to burst, or a sickly child might have a growth spurt before passing away, it warns that rapid progress without stability is often a sign of imminent failure.

Taking up folk theater (Bagotam) because one cannot make a living otherwise.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone takes up a profession or a specific task out of sheer necessity or desperation rather than choice or passion. It implies that a person is doing something beneath their dignity or unusual just to survive when all other options have failed.

The ear of grain is a cubit long, but the stalk is a fathom long.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where the overhead, effort, or waste (represented by the long stalk) far exceeds the actual result, profit, or utility (represented by the small ear of grain). It signifies disproportionate effort or high maintenance for a very small return.

Nose is a cubit long, but the hair bun is a fathom long.

This expression is used to describe someone who exaggerates their appearance or qualities, or to describe an awkward/disproportionate situation. It often refers to a person who makes a mountain out of a molehill, or someone who focuses excessively on minor embellishments while the core reality is different.

The child who doesn't survive appears a fathom long.

This expression is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities or potential of things that are already lost or projects that have failed. Just as a child who died at birth is often remembered as being exceptionally healthy or large, people often overstate the greatness of 'what could have been' in hindsight.

When someone who rarely does anything goes to eat jamun fruits, crimes were pinned on them.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where an innocent or inexperienced person tries to do something simple or enjoy a rare treat, but ends up being blamed for something wrong or getting into unexpected trouble. It signifies bad timing or being caught in a streak of misfortune.

The nose is a cubit long, and the hair knot is a fathom long.

This expression is used to describe a situation where the secondary or decorative aspects of something far exceed the actual core or essential part. It is often used to criticize someone who over-exaggerates their features, spends excessively on trivialities, or when the cost/effort of maintenance outweighs the value of the object itself.

The dead infant is always a fine child.

This proverb is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities or potential of something they have lost or something that failed to materialize. It highlights the human tendency to glorify the 'what ifs' or lost opportunities, making them seem much greater than they actually were.

Thought more of when dead than when living. Far folks fare well, and fair children die.

The prawn doesn't even have a body, but it has a yard-long mustache.

This expression is used to describe someone who lacks basic substance, status, or capability, yet makes grand displays of arrogance or carries an oversized ego. It highlights the irony of having a massive 'identity' or 'show' without any actual foundation.