బ్రతకని బిడ్డ తెగబారెడు

bratakani bidda tegabaredu

Translation

The dead infant is always a fine child.

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities or potential of something they have lost or something that failed to materialize. It highlights the human tendency to glorify the 'what ifs' or lost opportunities, making them seem much greater than they actually were.

Notes

Thought more of when dead than when living. Far folks fare well, and fair children die.

Related Phrases

The child who does not survive is as long as a hand-span.

This proverb is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities, beauty, or potential of someone or something that was lost or is no longer available. It is similar to saying 'the one that got away was the biggest fish.'

If you pull the vine, the entire thicket moves.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a single action or a small clue leads to the discovery of a much larger, interconnected issue or a hidden network of events. It is similar to the English idiom 'pulling a thread' or 'opening a can of worms'.

Only waste of castor oil, but not [ saving ] the child's life. Useless endeavours.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where, despite putting in effort, resources, or expensive remedies, the desired result is not achieved. It signifies a futile attempt where the investment (symbolized by the medicinal castor oil) is lost without saving the outcome (symbolized by the child).

A child who doesn't know how to survive grows to be a fathom long.

This proverb describes a person who lacks practical life skills or common sense despite being physically grown or having significant resources. It is used to mock someone who is old enough or 'big' enough to be capable, yet remains helpless, lazy, or foolish in managing their own affairs.

In the month of Thai, the night is as long as a full arm's length.

This expression refers to the winter season (specifically the lunar month of Pushya/Thai) when nights are significantly longer than days. It is used to describe periods of long duration or to remark on the seasonal changes in daylight.

The child who doesn't survive appears a fathom long.

This expression is used to describe how people tend to exaggerate the qualities or potential of things that are already lost or projects that have failed. Just as a child who died at birth is often remembered as being exceptionally healthy or large, people often overstate the greatness of 'what could have been' in hindsight.

When the devil attacks will the child live ? Said of a meddling fool.

This proverb is used to describe an impossible situation where two contradictory things cannot happen at the same time. It implies that certain actions have inevitable, often negative, consequences; you cannot expect a positive outcome when a destructive force is involved. It is similar to saying 'You can't have your cake and eat it too' or used when someone wants to do something harmful but expects no damage.

Will the ghost strike and the child survive?

This expression is used to describe a situation where two contradictory things cannot happen simultaneously. It refers to an impossible outcome where someone causes severe harm (like a ghost attacking) but expects the victim to remain unharmed. It is often used when a person acts maliciously but pretends to care about the welfare of the victim.

A yard of hair, but only a cubit of garland.

This expression is used to describe a situation where there is a significant disparity between the effort/status and the final result or reward. It specifically refers to someone having very long hair (a yard) but wearing a very short flower garland (a cubit), symbolizing inadequacy or a lack of proportion in decoration or appreciation.

Your sluggishness is equal to a full fathom. The word Bâra properly signifies the length of the arms extended as when a man stretches himself.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a small problem has escalated significantly or where there is a massive discrepancy between what was expected and the actual result. It implies that a situation (often a negative one like a leak or a debt) has grown out of control or is much larger than it appears to be.