ఏరు అయినా మూడు నేరములు కాస్తుంది.

eru ayina mudu neramulu kastundi.

Translation

Even a river will forgive three offences. Referring to the three times which a man is said to sink before drowning. The duty of forgiveness.

Meaning

This expression is used to signify patience and tolerance. Just as a river might not overflow or cause destruction immediately upon the first few disturbances, a wise or powerful person often overlooks a few mistakes before taking action or reacting. It suggests that one should have a certain level of endurance and give others a chance to rectify their behavior before passing judgment or retaliating.

Related Phrases

In the days of affection, faults never appear.

This expression means that when people are in love or have a strong bond of friendship, they tend to overlook each other's mistakes and flaws. It is used to describe the initial stages of a relationship or deep intimacy where everything the other person does is seen in a positive light.

If Kavili trees bear fruit, the monsoon paddy will yield well.

This is a traditional agricultural proverb used by farmers to predict crop yields based on nature's signals. It suggests that the blooming or fruiting of specific local trees (Kavili) serves as a biological indicator for a successful monsoon rice harvest.

Once the knot is tied, whether it is a widow or a coarse person, one must bear it.

This proverb signifies that once a commitment or marriage is finalized, one must accept the consequences and the person involved, regardless of their flaws or the difficulties that arise. It is used to describe situations where a decision is irreversible and one must fulfill their responsibility despite dissatisfaction.

If neem trees bear fruit, the lands will yield crops.

This is a traditional agricultural observation suggesting that a heavy yield of neem fruits (vemu) is a biological indicator of a good monsoon season ahead, leading to a prosperous harvest for the farmers.

When the river arrives, the rain stops.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a minor concern or source of relief is superseded by a larger event, or specifically, that once a major outcome is achieved (the river flowing), the preliminary signs (the rain) are no longer needed. It is often used to imply that after a long-awaited result occurs, the struggles leading up to it come to an end.

In the days when there is affection, faults will never arise.

This proverb highlights that when there is love and strong friendship between people, they tend to overlook each other's mistakes or flaws. It is used to describe how affection creates a sense of tolerance and bias where one sees no wrong in the person they love.

When someone who rarely does anything goes to eat jamun fruits, crimes were pinned on them.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where an innocent or inexperienced person tries to do something simple or enjoy a rare treat, but ends up being blamed for something wrong or getting into unexpected trouble. It signifies bad timing or being caught in a streak of misfortune.

A woman who knows how to eat also knows how to serve.

This proverb implies that someone who enjoys or appreciates the value of something will also know how to provide it to others. In a broader sense, it means that a person who understands their own needs and comforts is better equipped to care for the needs of others. It is often used to describe someone's hospitality or their proficiency in managing resources.

Whether it is a feast or medicine, it should only last for three days.

This proverb emphasizes that anything in life should be done in moderation and within a specific timeframe. Just as a guest or a feast becomes burdensome after three days, or medicine loses its purpose or becomes harmful if taken too long, everything has an optimal duration. It is used to advise someone not to overstay their welcome or overdo a particular activity.

If neem trees yield fruit, the lands will yield crops.

This is a traditional agricultural observation or proverb. It suggests that a heavy flowering or fruiting of neem trees (Azadirachta indica) is a natural indicator of a good monsoon or favorable weather conditions, which will eventually lead to a bumper harvest for farmers.