ఇస్తి వాయనము, పుచ్చుకొంటి వాయనము.
isti vayanamu, puchchukonti vayanamu.
I gave cakes and took cakes.
This expression is used to describe a transaction or a ritualistic exchange where the formality is completed quickly and mutually. In a broader sense, it refers to a situation where something is given and something else is received immediately in return, leaving no further obligations or debts between the two parties.
Vâyanam is a gift of cakes, &c., to a Brahman. Taking as much as you give. To one who has a pie in the oven you may give a bit of your cake. (French.)
Related Phrases
వయసు తప్పినా వయారము తప్పలేదు.
vayasu tappina vayaramu tappaledu.
Though he is old he is still a fop.
This expression is used to describe someone who maintains their elegance, charm, or style despite growing old. It suggests that while physical youth may fade, one's poise and attractive demeanor remain intact.
ఇస్తినమ్మ వాయనం, పుచ్చుకుంటినమ్మ వాయనం
istinamma vayanam, puchchukuntinamma vayanam
I gave the offering, dear lady; I received the offering, dear lady.
This expression describes a situation where a task or ritual is performed purely for the sake of formality without any real impact, progress, or meaningful exchange. It is often used to mock someone who returns a favor or a debt immediately just to get it over with, or when something is given and taken back so quickly that the whole transaction becomes pointless.
ఇచ్చితినమ్మా వాయనం అంటే, పుచ్చుకుంటినమ్మా వాయనం అన్నట్టు
ichchitinamma vayanam ante, puchchukuntinamma vayanam annattu
When one says 'I have given the offering, mother', the other says 'I have received the offering, mother'
This proverb describes a situation where two people are in a hurry to finish a task or a ritual without any genuine interest or sincerity. It is used when both parties are merely 'going through the motions' to get a job over with as quickly as possible, often resulting in a superficial or perfunctory outcome.
సరిపోయిన సన్నీ, వయసొచ్చిన పిల్లా
saripoyina sanni, vayasochchina pilla
A well-fitting cold-water bath and a girl who has come of age.
This expression is used to describe things that are at their peak or perfect stage of development. It suggests that just as a bath feels best at the right temperature, a young woman reaching maturity represents a significant and vibrant stage of life. It is often used to highlight timeliness and the natural progression of things.
స్థిరాస్తి ఆయన, చరాస్తి ఆయన గుడ్డలు
sthirasti ayana, charasti ayana guddalu
The fixed asset is him; the movable assets are his clothes.
This humorous or sarcastic expression is used to describe someone who is completely penniless or has no wealth at all. It implies that the person's only permanent possession is their physical body, and the only things they own that move are the clothes on their back.
ఇచ్చినమ్మ ఈగ, పుచ్చుకొన్నమ్మ పులి
ichchinamma iga, puchchukonnamma puli
The giver is a housefly, the receiver is a tiger.
This proverb highlights the irony and unfairness in certain transactions or interpersonal dynamics. The person who gives or lends something is often timid, weak, or hesitant (like a fly) when asking for it back, while the person who received it becomes aggressive, demanding, or fierce (like a tiger) when it is time to return the favor or the item.
అర్థమూ, ప్రాణమూ ఆచార్యాధీనము; తాళమూ, దేహమూ నా ఆధీనము.
arthamu, pranamu acharyadhinamu; talamu, dehamu na adhinamu.
Wealth and life are under the Guru's control; the key and the body are under my control.
This proverb satirically describes a person who pretends to surrender everything to a teacher or mentor but remains deeply attached to their physical comforts and material possessions. It is used to mock hypocritical devotion or someone who talks about sacrifice but keeps the most important resources for themselves.
నయానా భయానా
nayana bhayana
By mildness or severity. If one does not answer, the other must be tried.
This expression refers to a strategy of using both persuasion (friendly approach) and intimidation (threats) to get something done. It is equivalent to the English idiom 'by hook or by crook' or 'the carrot and the stick' approach.
మూసిన వాయనం, ముత్తైదువలె.
musina vayanam, muttaiduvale.
Like a closed offering and a married woman.
This expression is used to describe two people or things that are perfectly matched or inseparable. Just as a ritual offering (vayanm) and the woman receiving it are essential to certain Hindu ceremonies, it signifies a deep, complementary, or fixed relationship.
వెన్న పుచ్చుకొని వేసినవారిని రాయి పుచ్చుకొని వేతురా?
venna puchchukoni vesinavarini rayi puchchukoni vetura?
Will you throw stones on those that threw butter ? Returning evil for good.
This expression emphasizes the importance of responding to kindness with kindness, rather than with hostility or ingratitude. It is used to suggest that if someone treats you gently or does you a favor (symbolized by butter), it is morally wrong to respond with harshness or harm (symbolized by a stone).