కల్లందగ్గరి కరణీకం, కంచందగ్గరి రెడ్డిరికం.

kallandaggari karanikam, kanchandaggari reddirikam.

Translation

Clerkship at the threshing floor, lordship at the dining plate.

Meaning

This proverb describes people who show off their authority or position only where there is a personal benefit or profit. A 'Karanam' (clerk) shows his power at the threshing floor to take his share of grain, and a 'Reddy' (village head) asserts his status at the dining table to get the best food. It is used to mock those who are only 'bossy' when there is something to gain.

Related Phrases

Like a wasp near the ear

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A good person's character is revealed when they are cheated, and a truthful person's character is revealed at the time of death.

This proverb explains that true nature is tested during adversity. A truly good person remains virtuous even when betrayed or faced with deceit, and a person committed to truth remains honest even when facing life-threatening situations. It is used to emphasize that integrity is not what one shows in comfort, but what one maintains under pressure.

Stretch your legs only as far as the bed extends.

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Like counting flaws when someone comes close.

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Bargaining for an extra is fine where you purchase, but can you bargain where you begged?

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Whether death approaches or a wife approaches, one loses their mind.

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The advice is given at the ear, but it is heard at the mortar.

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The words spoken at the graveyard do not remain at the dinner table.

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For a field near the village, everyone is a thief.

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Graze where it is green, sleep where it is warm

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