కూతురు కనలేకపోతే, అల్లుడి మీద పడి ఏడ్చినట్లు
kuturu kanalekapote, alludi mida padi edchinatlu
When the daughter cannot give birth, crying/blaming the son-in-law.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone shifts the blame onto an innocent person for a failure that is actually due to their own (or their kin's) inability or shortcoming. It highlights the unfair tendency to scapegoat others for personal failures.
Related Phrases
మొగుడు లేకపోతే అప్ప మొగుడు, కూర లేకపోతే పప్పకూర.
mogudu lekapote appa mogudu, kura lekapote pappakura.
If a husband is not there, then the elder sister's husband; if a curry is not there, then dal.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone settles for a substitute or an alternative when the original or preferred choice is unavailable. It highlights the human tendency to find a replacement, sometimes even an inappropriate or simplified one, just to fill a void.
అసలు లేకపోతే అహంకారం ఎక్కువ
asalu lekapote ahankaram ekkuva
When there is no substance, arrogance is high
This expression is used to describe a person who lacks genuine talent, knowledge, or wealth, but compensates for it with excessive pride or vanity. It is similar to the English proverb 'Empty vessels make the most noise.'
కాకిసోమాల కూతురు - అంకమ్మ కళల అల్లుడు
kakisomala kuturu - ankamma kalala alludu
The daughter of Kaki Somalu - The son-in-law of Ankamma's dreams
This expression is used to describe a match or a pairing of two people who are equally strange, foolish, or mismatched. It highlights a situation where both parties in a relationship or a deal have peculiar or undesirable traits, making them a perfect (yet ironic) fit for each other. It is often used humorously to comment on odd couples or peculiar social connections.
అన్నము లేకపోతే వరి అన్నము, బట్ట లేకపోతే పట్టుబట్ట.
annamu lekapote vari annamu, batta lekapote pattubatta.
If you have no common food, [give me] the best; if you have no common cloth, [give me] a silk one.
This is a sarcastic expression used to describe someone who, when they lack basic necessities, demands or expects high-end luxuries instead of seeking practical alternatives. It highlights the irony of having extravagant tastes or unrealistic expectations while being in a state of poverty or deprivation.
Said by an impertinent beggar when refused assistance by a stingy person.
అత్తసొమ్ము అల్లుడు దానం చేసినట్లు
attasommu alludu danam chesinatlu
Like a son-in-law donating his mother-in-law's property.
This proverb is used to describe a person who is being generous or charitable with someone else's resources or money rather than their own. It highlights the hypocrisy of taking credit for a sacrifice that doesn't actually cost the giver anything.
లేకలేక ఒక కూతురు పుడితే అది బసివి అయినదట
lekaleka oka kuturu pudite adi basivi ayinadata
When a daughter was finally born after a long wait, she became a Basivi (devotee/temple prostitute).
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone waits a very long time for a desired outcome, but when it finally happens, the result is disappointing, useless, or turns out to be a misfortune. It highlights the irony of a hard-won success turning into a failure.
అలిగి అల్లుడు చెడ్డాడట, కుడవక కూతురు చెడ్డదట
aligi alludu cheddadata, kudavaka kuturu cheddadata
By being stubborn, the son-in-law lost; by not eating, the daughter suffered.
This proverb describes a situation where people harm themselves more than others through their stubbornness or ego. A son-in-law staying away out of anger loses the hospitality/respect he would have received, and a daughter refusing food to protest only ends up hungry and weak. It is used to advise against cutting off one's nose to spite one's face.
తనకు లేదని ఏడ్చి ఒక కన్ను పోతే, ఎదుటివారికి ఉందని ఏడ్చి ఇంకొక కన్ను పోయిందట.
tanaku ledani edchi oka kannu pote, edutivariki undani edchi inkoka kannu poyindata.
Crying for not having something cost one eye, and crying because others have it cost the second eye.
This proverb describes extreme envy or a toxic competitive mindset. It refers to a person who is so consumed by their own lack and, more destructively, by others' success, that they end up causing their own total ruin. It is used to criticize those who cannot tolerate the prosperity of others.
అత్తకు లేక అటికలు నాకుతూ ఉంటే, అల్లుడు వచ్చి దీపావళి పండుగ అన్నాడట.
attaku leka atikalu nakutu unte, alludu vachchi dipavali panduga annadata.
While the mother-in-law was licking empty pots because there was no food, the son-in-law arrived and asked for Diwali celebrations.
This proverb describes a situation where someone makes extravagant demands or expects celebration from a person who is currently struggling to even meet their basic necessities. It is used to highlight the insensitivity or lack of awareness of someone's poor circumstances.
అల్లుడు నా కూతురు మొగుడైతే, అల్లుడితో గూడ వచ్చిన గిల్లుడు నా మొగుడన్నాడట
alludu na kuturu mogudaite, alludito guda vachchina gilludu na mogudannadata
If the son-in-law is my daughter's husband, is the pinch that came with the son-in-law my husband?
This proverb is used to mock someone who makes absurd or nonsensical comparisons, or someone who draws illogical conclusions from a simple fact. It highlights the foolishness of trying to establish unnecessary or impossible relationships between unrelated things.