మగడు వల్లనమ్మను మారీ వల్లదు.

magadu vallanammanu mari valladu.

Translation

Even the goddess of pestilence passes over the woman un- loved by her husband. Because her misery cannot be augmented; death would only release her from her sufferings. Māri or Māriyamma (Sans. Māri) is the fury supposed to preside over the small-pox and other epidemiological diseases. You cannot damage a wrecked ship. (Ilanan.)

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a person who is so unfortunate or troublesome that they are rejected by everyone, including their own family and even fate. It signifies a state of total abandonment or being an outcast whom nobody wants to take responsibility for.

Related Phrases

Soviet's is peace expense, America's is war expense

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If asked to eat, the tiger says no.

This proverb is used to describe a person who behaves hypocritically or makes excuses to avoid doing something that they would normally enjoy or benefit from, often out of spite or to pretend they are disinterested.

A coin that won't pass and a husband who is not liked.

This expression is used to describe things or people that are useless, burdensome, or of no value in a given situation. Just as a counterfeit or invalid coin cannot be spent, a person who doesn't fulfill their responsibilities or is unwelcome is considered a liability.

Work does not get done through petitions alone, and children are not born through blessings alone.

This proverb emphasizes the necessity of practical action and effort over mere formality or faith. It is used to point out that success requires hard work and physical initiative, rather than just submitting requests or waiting for divine intervention/luck.

Life cannot be sustained through adultery and lies.

This proverb emphasizes that a life built on immorality (infidelity) and dishonesty (falsehood) will never lead to a peaceful or successful conclusion. It is used to warn that character and integrity are essential for a stable life, and shortcuts through deceit or unethical behavior will eventually lead to ruin.

Non-current cash will never pass [in currency ]; an unloving husband will never love [his wife ].

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For the husband who does not love his wife, there is not enough salt in the İlakûra.

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This herb ( Salsola Indica ) is occasionally used as a vegetable, and is naturally very salt. Where there is no love, all are faults. If you want a pretence to whip a dog, it is enough to say he ate up the frying pan.

Pushing away your own people and holding the feet of strangers.

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Like saying every woman wearing a black saree is my wife.

This expression is used to describe a person who is overly optimistic, foolishly assumes ownership or authority over things that don't belong to them, or makes broad, illogical generalizations based on a single commonality.

Mouth-pots for those who go first, and licks for those who follow.

This proverb highlights the disadvantage of procrastination or being late. Those who arrive early get the full portion of a meal (served in pots), while those who arrive late are left with only the leftovers to lick from the vessels. It is used to encourage punctuality and promptness.