మామ బంతికి కూర్చోని, అత్త బంతికి లేస్తాడు

mama bantiki kurchoni, atta bantiki lestadu

Translation

He sits down at the father-in-law's feast and gets up at the mother-in-law's feast.

Meaning

This expression describes a person who is extremely lazy or an opportunist who overstays their welcome. It refers to someone who starts eating when one meal begins and continues sitting there until the next meal starts, essentially doing nothing but eating and lingering for a very long time.

Related Phrases

Like tying a knot between the sky and the earth

This expression is used to describe an impossible task, a highly exaggerated statement, or a clever person who can bridge two completely unrelated or extreme things through their talk or actions. It is often used to describe someone who spins tall tales or attempts to reconcile vast differences.

Perhaps they'll ask you to dine with Timmanna.

This expression is used sarcastically or humorously when someone receives an unexpected or formal invitation to a place where they expect to be treated with great respect or served a grand meal. It is often used to describe situations where one anticipates being the center of attention or expects a reward for their presence.

Timmanna is a jocose term for a monkey. The boisterous fun at the time of investing a Brahmachâr with the sacerdotal thread is called in joke Timmannabanti, the monkey feast.

To a set of monkey-like scamps tasteless broth and plain rice [ should be served ].

This expression refers to a situation where the hospitality or the arrangements are exactly as expected, or where something modest is offered with great affection. It is often used to describe a simple, satisfying meal or a specific routine where one is content with what is provided by a particular host.

For conversation at our house, for a meal at your house.

This proverb is used to describe someone who is very friendly and talkative but avoids being hospitable or sharing food. It refers to a person who is happy to host a conversation but expects others to provide the meal or resources. It highlights a one-sided relationship or stinginess disguised as friendliness.

Sweet rasam rice for Thimmanna's feast.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is extremely satisfied with something very simple or mediocre, often because they have low expectations or are easily pleased. It can also imply a modest gathering where simple food is enjoyed thoroughly.

Infection to the eye, pain to the body

This expression is used to describe a situation that is extremely annoying, constant, and difficult to ignore. Just as an eye infection causes persistent discomfort and a body ache makes one restless, this phrase refers to a person or a problem that causes continuous irritation or trouble.

Like saying 'I was invited to Thimmanna's feast'

This expression is used to describe a person who behaves with excessive entitlement or self-importance at an event just because they were invited. It highlights the irony of someone acting like they are the guest of honor or the owner of the place when they are just one of many invitees.

Neither a housewife for the home, nor a pot for the stack.

This expression is used to describe someone or something that is completely useless or fails to serve any intended purpose. Just as a woman who doesn't care for the home isn't a true housewife, and a broken or ill-fitting pot cannot be part of a stack (donthi), a person who lacks utility in their designated role is described this way.

By the time one sits in a chair placed on a pond's bank and stands up, the bank has swallowed the chair.

This expression is used to describe an extremely rapid or sudden loss, or a situation where something disappears or is destroyed in the blink of an eye. It highlights instability and the unpredictability of certain circumstances where even a brief moment of relaxation can lead to a total loss.

If the water is head-deep for a palm tree, how deep is it for a small shrub?

This proverb is used to illustrate relative scale and consequences. If a giant or a very strong person/entity is struggling or overwhelmed by a situation, a small or weak person would be completely submerged or destroyed by it. It highlights that if a great obstacle affects the mighty, it will surely be insurmountable for the small.