నవ్వుతూ తిడితివూ, నరకాన పడితివూ
navvutu tiditivu, narakana paditivu
If you abuse while laughing, you will fall into hell.
This expression warns that hiding insults or malice behind a smile is a grave sin. It is used to describe people who are deceitful and mock others under the guise of friendliness or humor.
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నీవు వెడితే బూతులు తిట్టి వస్తావు, నేను వెడితే అమ్మను ఆలిని తిట్టి వస్తాను.
nivu vedite butulu titti vastavu, nenu vedite ammanu alini titti vastanu.
If you go, you will come back cursing with slurs; if I go, I will come back cursing even their mother and wife.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone seeks help from a person who is even worse or more incompetent than themselves. It highlights a scenario where both parties involved are problematic, but one is significantly more extreme or crude than the other, suggesting that no good outcome can result from their collaboration.
నరకానికి నవద్వారాలు, నాకానికి ఒకటే.
narakaniki navadvaralu, nakaniki okate.
Hell has nine gates, but Heaven has only one.
This proverb suggests that there are many ways to fall into vice or make mistakes (symbolized by the nine openings of the human body and worldly distractions), whereas the path to virtue or liberation is singular and requires disciplined focus. It is used to caution someone that it is easy to go astray but difficult to find the right path.
నవ్వుతూ తిట్టితివూ, నరకాన పడితివూ
navvutu tittitivu, narakana paditivu
Laughing, you reviled, and you have fallen into hell!
This expression refers to a situation where someone says something hurtful, insulting, or sarcastic under the guise of humor or a smile. It implies that even if an insult is delivered pleasantly, the negative intent or sin remains the same, leading to spiritual or social consequences.
రోగాన పడీ పడీ నరకాన చేరాడు.
rogana padi padi narakana cheradu.
Having fallen ill repeatedly, he finally reached hell.
This expression describes someone who has suffered through prolonged, excruciating illness or hardship for a long time before finally passing away or reaching a state of absolute misery. It is used to emphasize a journey of continuous suffering where death or the final outcome feels like a tragic end to a painful process.
ముక్కు దాటితే ముక్తి, నాలుక దాటితే నరకం
mukku datite mukti, naluka datite narakam
Liberation if it passes the nose, hell if it passes the tongue.
This proverb emphasizes the power and danger of speech. 'Passing the nose' refers to the breath (life/meditation), leading to spiritual liberation, whereas 'passing the tongue' refers to careless or hurtful speech, which leads to trouble or 'hell'. It is used to advise someone to think before they speak and to maintain self-control over their words.
పెట్టితే తింటారుగాని, తిట్టితే పడేవారు లేరు.
pettite tintarugani, tittite padevaru leru.
If you feed, [people] will eat; but if you abuse none will bear it.
This proverb highlights human nature regarding respect and dignity. It means that while people are happy to accept favors or gifts, they will not tolerate being insulted or treated poorly. It is used to advise someone that providing material help does not give them the right to verbal abuse.
నవ్వుతూ కోసిన ముక్కు ఏడ్చినా రాదు
navvutu kosina mukku edchina radu
A nose cut off while laughing won't come back even if you cry.
This proverb warns that actions taken impulsively, playfully, or without due thought can have irreversible and painful consequences. It emphasizes that regret cannot undo the damage caused by a foolish mistake or a lack of foresight.
పెట్టితే తింటారుగాని, తిడితే పడతారా!
pettite tintarugani, tidite padatara!
They will eat if you feed them, but will they bear it if you scold them?
This expression highlights that while people are happy to accept benefits, favors, or gifts, they will not tolerate disrespect or insults in return. It is often used to remind someone that providing for others (like food or money) does not give them the right to be abusive or rude, as human dignity is valued above material gains.
తిట్టితే కోపం, కొట్టితే నొప్పి
tittite kopam, kottite noppi
If you abuse—anger; if you beat—pain.
This expression is used to describe a person who is extremely sensitive or lacks resilience. It highlights that they react negatively to even the smallest forms of criticism or physical hardship. It can also be used to point out obvious cause-and-effect reactions in human emotions and physical sensations.
నవ్వుతూ చేస్తారు, ఏడుస్తూ అనుభవిస్తారు
navvutu chestaru, edustu anubhavistaru
Laughing, they do it; weeping, they suffer for it.
This proverb is used to warn someone that the actions or mistakes they commit lightheartedly or out of greed will eventually lead to painful consequences that they will have to endure with regret.
Said of criminals.