పెట్టిపోయని పెద్దమ్మ! కుట్టుబార గుద్దేవే.

pettipoyani peddamma! kuttubara guddeve.

Translation

Oh elderly lady who gives neither food nor gifts! Why do you punch me until my body aches?

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a person who doesn't help or provide any benefit to others, yet goes out of their way to cause trouble, criticize, or harass them. It highlights the irony of someone who is useless but remains a source of pain or annoyance.

Related Phrases

An elevated load and the evening darkness.

This expression refers to a situation where a person is burdened with a heavy responsibility or task at the very last moment or when time is running out. It signifies the difficulty of managing a heavy load (literal or metaphorical) when the circumstances (like fading light) are becoming unfavorable.

Big words for a small mouth

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone (often a younger person or someone in a subordinate position) speaks in a manner that is overly ambitious, arrogant, or beyond their age and status. It is often used as a mild rebuke or a way to highlight that someone is talking beyond their experience or authority.

The husband who provides neither food nor clothing poked her until her stitches came apart.

This proverb is used to describe a person who does not fulfill their basic responsibilities or help in any way, yet causes extra trouble or harm. It highlights the irony and cruelty of someone who is useless but actively makes a situation worse.

The woman who doesn't even serve food came to beat!

This proverb is used to describe someone who fails to do their basic duty or provide help, but instead causes trouble or behaves aggressively. It highlights the irony of someone being useless in a positive sense but active in a negative or harmful way.

Why engage in empty bargaining when there is no intention of giving or serving?

This proverb is used to criticize people who talk a lot or make grand promises without any intention of actually helping or providing anything. It highlights the pointlessness of empty negotiations or discussions (vatti beramu) that do not result in a tangible outcome or act of generosity (petti poyadam).

Even if an elephant falls down, it is still as high as a hillock.

This proverb is used to describe a person or entity that was once great, wealthy, or powerful. Even after facing a significant downfall or loss, their remaining stature, dignity, or assets are still far superior to those of an ordinary person.

For a stubborn husband, a rebellious wife.

This proverb describes a couple where both partners are difficult or non-cooperative in their own ways. If the husband is argumentative or perverse in his behavior, the wife matches him by being unyielding or burdensome. It is used to describe a pair that is perfectly matched in their negative traits or lack of harmony.

For a very short husband, a very tall wife.

This proverb describes a mismatch or an ill-suited pairing. It is used to point out situations where two entities, people, or things are completely incompatible or disproportionate to each other, making the combination look awkward or impractical.

Lifting the burden and then beating one's chest in grief.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone voluntarily takes on a responsibility or burden and then complains or laments about the difficulty and stress it causes. It highlights the irony of self-inflicted hardship.

For a wedding that is bound to fail, it is all the same even if you offer a helping hand.

This proverb is used to describe a situation or task that is fundamentally flawed or destined for failure from the start. In such cases, no matter how much effort, support, or 'legs' (assistance) you provide, the outcome will remain the same. It suggests that some things are beyond saving despite intervention.