పుట్టిల్లు చేరువ, దగ్గర వాన ఉండకూడదు
puttillu cheruva, daggara vana undakudadu
One's birthplace should be nearby, but rain should not be close.
This proverb highlights a traditional perspective on convenience and distance. It suggests that having one's maternal home (birthplace) nearby is a comfort and a source of support, but living in a place where it rains constantly or where 'rain is too close' (implying flooding or dampness) is undesirable and inconvenient.
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ఉత్తర కుమార ప్రజ్ఞలు
uttara kumara prajnyalu
The boastings of Uttara Kumâra.
This expression is used to describe a person who boasts or brags excessively about their courage and abilities but proves to be a coward or fails miserably when it comes to actual action. It originates from the Mahabharata, where Prince Uttara Kumara made grand claims of bravery before fleeing the battlefield upon seeing the Kuru army.
Uttara, the son of king Virâṭa, volunteered to attack the Kurus, but his courage failed him and he turned tail at the sight of the enemy ( see Virâṭaparva of the Mahâbhârata ). Bragging. Bombast.
యథా రాజా తథా ప్రజా
yatha raja tatha praja
As is the king, so are the people
This expression implies that the character, behavior, and values of the citizens or followers are a reflection of their leader. If the leader is righteous and hardworking, the people will follow suit; if the leader is corrupt, the society tends to follow that path. It is used to emphasize the influence and responsibility of leadership.
చింత చచ్చినా పులుపు చావదు
chinta chachchina pulupu chavadu
Is it a village that I have lived in ? Are the people those with whom I have been intimate ? Said of a strange place.
This proverb is used to describe a person who, despite losing their status, wealth, or health, still retains their pride, arrogance, or core character traits. It implies that a person's fundamental nature remains unchanged even after they have lost their power or resources.
దున్నపోతు ముందు వీణ వాయించినట్టు
dunnapotu mundu vina vayinchinattu
Like playing a Veena in front of a male buffalo.
This expression is used to describe a situation where one's efforts, talents, or advice are wasted on someone who cannot appreciate or understand them. It is similar to the English idiom 'Casting pearls before swine.'
అమ్మ ఒడికి వెళ్తే మేనమామ దగ్గరికా?
amma odiki velte menamama daggarika?
If you go to mother's childhood home, is it not the maternal uncle's house?
This expression is used to describe a situation where one is stating the obvious or providing information that the listener already knows. It highlights a redundant question or an redundant explanation of a self-evident fact, as a mother's birthplace is naturally the house of the maternal uncle.
ఆహారం దగ్గర, వ్యవహారం దగ్గర మొహమాటం పనికిరాదు
aharam daggara, vyavaharam daggara mohamatam panikiradu
One should not be shy or hesitant when it comes to food and business.
This proverb suggests that in certain situations, being overly modest or shy can lead to personal loss. Specifically, when eating (so you get enough to satisfy your hunger) and when conducting business or legal matters (so you ensure your interests are protected), you must be direct and outspoken.
గొడ్డలి దెబ్బకు అన్నాడట
goddali debbaku annadata
He said 'brother' to the axe blow
This expression describes a situation where someone suddenly becomes humble, respectful, or starts calling an enemy 'brother' only when faced with an immediate, life-threatening danger or severe punishment. It is used to mock people who only show manners or submission when they are under duress.
కాటి దగ్గరి మాటలు కూటి దగ్గర ఉండవు
kati daggari matalu kuti daggara undavu
The words spoken at the graveyard do not remain at the dinner table.
This proverb highlights the fleeting nature of philosophical realizations or remorse. People often express deep wisdom or regret during somber moments (like a funeral), but quickly return to their usual habits and desires once they are back in the comfort of their daily lives.
తాళం నీ దగ్గర, చెవి నా దగ్గర
talam ni daggara, chevi na daggara
The lock is with you, the key is with me.
In Telugu, 'Chevi' can mean both 'ear' and 'key'. This expression refers to a situation where two parties must cooperate because they each hold a vital part of a solution, or more colloquially, it describes a situation where authority or access is divided, preventing any one person from acting independently.
రాజుల దగ్గర ఉంటే రత్నాలు, పేదల దగ్గర ఉంటే పలుకురాళ్ళు
rajula daggara unte ratnalu, pedala daggara unte palukurallu
If they are with kings they are gems, if they are with the poor they are just pebbles.
This proverb highlights how society perceives the same object or quality differently based on a person's status or wealth. When a powerful or rich person possesses something, it is highly valued and praised, but when a poor person has the same thing, it is often dismissed as worthless or ordinary. It is used to describe social bias and the unfair weight given to status.