వియ్యాలవారింటికి వెళ్తే వీపుల మీదే వస్తుంది

viyyalavarintiki velte vipula mide vastundi

Translation

If you go to the in-laws' house, it will come on your backs (smallpox).

Meaning

This proverb describes a situation where an attempt to seek favor, hospitality, or celebration ends up resulting in unexpected trouble or bad luck. Historically, it refers to the irony of visiting relatives for a festive occasion but returning with a contagious disease like smallpox, symbolizing that even well-intended visits can lead to unforeseen burdens.

Related Phrases

Wherever you go, your karma (fate/actions) comes right in front of you.

This expression signifies that one cannot escape the consequences of their actions or their destiny, regardless of where they hide or travel. It is used to suggest that fate is inevitable and follows a person everywhere.

Like saying, 'I will go for alms once my brother arrives'

This proverb describes a person who is excessively lazy or dependent. It refers to someone who waits for someone else's arrival or help to perform even a basic task or to seek their own livelihood, showing a lack of initiative and a tendency to procrastinate.

A flower gives off fragrance as soon as it is born.

This expression is used to describe a person who shows signs of greatness, talent, or intelligence from a very early age. It is the Telugu equivalent of the English proverb 'The child is father of the man' or 'Genius manifests itself early'.

When wealth comes, strength comes; when wealth goes, strength goes.

This expression highlights the social reality that a person's influence, status, and perceived power are often directly tied to their financial standing. It is used to describe how people respect and follow someone when they are rich, but abandon or overlook them once they lose their fortune.

When the river arrives, the rain stops.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a minor concern or source of relief is superseded by a larger event, or specifically, that once a major outcome is achieved (the river flowing), the preliminary signs (the rain) are no longer needed. It is often used to imply that after a long-awaited result occurs, the struggles leading up to it come to an end.

Will a corpse that has gone to the cremation ground return home instead of being consumed by the logs?

This expression is used to describe an irreversible situation or a total loss. Just as a body taken to the pyre will inevitably be burnt and cannot return, it signifies that once something is gone or a certain point of no return is reached, there is no hope of recovery or reversal.

Back-stabs for the male in-law, swelling blows for the female in-law.

This expression is used to describe a situation where relatives or people involved in a relationship are treated with extreme hostility, insults, or physical abuse instead of the expected mutual respect and hospitality. It highlights a complete breakdown of decorum and the irony of causing harm to those who should be honored.

Sweet words cause the back to be thrashed.

This proverb warns that sweet talk or flattery can often lead to trouble or physical punishment later. It is used to advise caution when someone is being overly complimentary or deceptive, as their words might lead one into a trap or a situation resulting in severe consequences.

Will something that doesn't come by buying it, come by haggling for extras?

This proverb highlights that when a fundamental goal or result cannot be achieved through primary efforts or fair means (buying), it is futile to expect it through minor requests or petty bargaining (haggling). It is used to describe situations where someone tries to get a major benefit through trivial persistence when the main opportunity has already failed.

The morning dawns before the shepherds' marriage is begun. They have so many disputes that nothing can be settled.

This proverb is used to describe an event or task that took an excessively long time to complete, or a situation where people were kept waiting or busy until daybreak. It often implies a sense of exhaustion or the completion of a long, drawn-out process.