చిన్నత్త చిన్న పిశాచి, పెద్దత్త పెద్ద పిశాచి
chinnatta chinna pishachi, peddatta pedda pishachi
Younger mother-in-law is a small ghost, elder mother-in-law is a big ghost.
This proverb is used to describe a difficult situation where both available options or people are troublesome, regardless of their status or seniority. It specifically highlights the common domestic trope of friction with mothers-in-law (or aunts), suggesting that both are equally difficult to deal with, differing only in the scale of their nuisance.
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చిన్న ఇంట్లో పెద్ద కాపురం
chinna intlo pedda kapuram
Big household in a small house
This expression is used to describe a situation where a large family is living in a very small space. It highlights the struggles of overcrowding or managing extensive responsibilities with very limited resources.
కండ్లు పెద్దవి, కడుపు చిన్నది.
kandlu peddavi, kadupu chinnadi.
Eyes are big, stomach is small.
This expression refers to a person whose eyes are bigger than their stomach. It describes a situation where someone takes or orders a lot of food because it looks appealing, but they cannot actually finish it all because they get full quickly. It is used to caution against greed or wastefulness.
చిన్న నోటికి పెద్ద మాట
chinna notiki pedda mata
Big words for a small mouth
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone (often a younger person or someone in a subordinate position) speaks in a manner that is overly ambitious, arrogant, or beyond their age and status. It is often used as a mild rebuke or a way to highlight that someone is talking beyond their experience or authority.
చిన్నక్కను పెద్దక్కను, పెద్దక్కను చిన్నక్కను చేసినట్లు
chinnakkanu peddakkanu, peddakkanu chinnakkanu chesinatlu
Like making the younger sister the older one, and the older sister the younger one.
This expression is used to describe a situation where things are completely mixed up, shuffled, or inverted. It refers to a state of total confusion or an illogical reversal of roles or order.
రాజు కన్నా చిన్న, మంత్రి కన్నా పెద్ద.
raju kanna chinna, mantri kanna pedda.
Smaller than the king, but bigger than the minister.
This expression is used to describe a middle-ground position or an intermediary status where one is subordinate to the top authority but holds power over others. It is often used as a riddle answer for 'the finger' (the middle finger is next to the forefinger) or in a social context to describe middle management or individuals who are stuck between two different levels of hierarchy.
తన నీడే తన పిశాచము
tana nide tana pishachamu
His shadow is his devil. Afraid of his own shadow.
This expression describes a state of extreme guilt, paranoia, or fear where a person is haunted by their own actions. It suggests that when someone has a guilty conscience or is deeply afraid, even their own shadow appears like a threatening spirit, meaning they cannot escape their own mind.
ఉన్నవాడు ఊరికి పెద్ద, చచ్చినవాడు కాటికి పెద్ద.
unnavadu uriki pedda, chachchinavadu katiki pedda.
He that is alive is the head man of the village, and he that is dead is the head man of the burial ground. A taunt used to one who tries to make out that he is very highly connected.
This proverb highlights the transient nature of power and social status. It suggests that authority and leadership are only relevant while a person is alive and present in society; once deceased, their worldly influence vanishes and they belong only to the graveyard.
బాహ్య ధార్మికుడు ఆంతరంగిక పిశాచము
bahya dharmikudu antarangika pishachamu
A righteous person outwardly, a demon inwardly.
This expression is used to describe a hypocrite who pretends to be virtuous, moral, or religious in public while possessing a wicked or malicious character in private. It is similar to the English idiom 'A wolf in sheep's clothing.'
అమ్మి చిన్న కమ్మ పెద్ద
ammi chinna kamma pedda
The girl is small, but her earring is big.
This expression is used to describe a situation where an accessory, a side issue, or a minor detail overshadows the main person or subject. It is often applied when someone wears ornaments or clothes that are disproportionately large for their stature, or when the overhead costs of a project exceed the actual value of the project itself.
విశాఖ పట్టితే పిశాచి పట్టినట్లు
vishakha pattite pishachi pattinatlu
If the Vishakha star catches you, it is like being caught by a ghost.
This is an astrological saying referring to the Vishakha Nakshatra. It suggests that individuals under the influence of this star can be extremely stubborn, persistent, or difficult to deal with, much like an obsession or a haunting spirit that doesn't let go easily. It is used to describe someone's relentless nature or a streak of bad luck that feels inescapable.