చూచి మురుసుకొని, చెప్పి ఏడ్చుకొని

chuchi murusukoni, cheppi edchukoni

Translation

Watching and feeling happy, telling and crying

Meaning

This proverb describes someone who feels happy or envious when observing others' success or beauty, but feels miserable and complains when they have to talk about their own situation or face reality. It is used to mock people who are fickle or who pretend to be happy for others while harboring secret sorrow or resentment.

Related Phrases

Advise them repeatedly only to get kicked by a slipper, then come back to get kicked by us.

This is a sarcastic and cautionary expression used to mock someone who ignores good advice or repeatedly makes the same mistake despite warnings. It implies that if a person doesn't listen to reason and ends up humiliated by others, they shouldn't expect sympathy; instead, they might face further ridicule or anger from those who tried to help them initially.

Close (your mouth) and sit

This is a blunt and often rude expression used to tell someone to shut up or stay quiet. It is commonly used when someone is talking unnecessarily, annoying others, or meddling in affairs that do not concern them. It literally instructs the person to 'shut it' and remain still.

One should sing the song after seeing the mortar.

This proverb emphasizes situational awareness and appropriateness. It suggests that one's actions, words, or efforts should be tailored to the specific circumstances or the tools at hand, similar to the English expression 'To suit the action to the word.'

Look at the mother before you take the daughter; see how much milk the buffalo gives before you buy her.

This proverb suggests that the character and qualities of a person are often inherited or influenced by their upbringing and ancestry. It is commonly used in the context of marriage or forming long-term alliances, implying that observing the parents (background) provides a reliable preview of the individual's nature.

Open your eyes wide before marriage, but after marriage, keep them half-closed and act as if you see but don't see.

This proverb advises individuals to be extremely cautious and observant while choosing a life partner. However, once married, it suggests that one should be tolerant and overlook minor faults or imperfections in their spouse to maintain a harmonious and happy relationship.

An efficient man supposedly woke up very early, swept the floor, sprinkled water, and then went back to sleep somewhere else.

This is a sarcastic Telugu proverb used to mock someone who pretends to be hardworking or efficient but actually achieves nothing productive. It describes a person who performs the preliminary setup or minor chores with great showmanship, only to abandon the main task or go back to being lazy immediately after.

Having named the tree, you may sell fruit. As having been plucked from it.

This proverb suggests that having a strong reputation, lineage, or a solid foundation allows one to succeed easily. In business or life, if you are associated with a well-known 'brand' or a respected family name, you can leverage that credibility to achieve your goals.

Applying mascara after seeing the eye; placing a seat after seeing the bird.

This expression refers to performing an action or making a decision based on the specific context, status, or capacity of the person involved. It suggests that one should offer resources, respect, or tasks in proportion to the individual's merit or needs rather than following a one-size-fits-all approach.

Like boiling something to eat and then sleeping behind a bamboo screen.

This expression describes a simple, carefree, and contented life. It refers to a person who is satisfied with a basic meal and a modest place to sleep, living without any worries, complications, or high ambitions. It is often used to describe someone living a peaceful, stress-free life.

Felt happy upon seeing it, but cried after sharing it with others.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where one's happiness or success attracts the 'evil eye' or jealousy of others once it is disclosed. It serves as a warning to be discreet about one's joy or achievements, as sharing them might lead to bad luck or sorrow due to others' envy.