పడ్డకు పడుచుకు పలుపు కడితే వెంట పడతారు

paddaku paduchuku palupu kadite venta padataru

Translation

If you tie a halter to a young buffalo or a young girl, they will follow you.

Meaning

This is a traditional saying used to describe how certain people or animals can be easily led or controlled if given the right incentive or restraint at the right time. It suggests that once a connection or bond (symbolized by the 'palupu' or halter) is established, they will follow along. It is often used in a humorous or colloquial context regarding the behavior of youth.

Related Phrases

While one is struggling for their own survival, being chased by a lame-legged cat.

This proverb describes a situation where a person who is already overwhelmed with their own severe problems is suddenly burdened by another person's petty or additional demands. It is used when someone who can barely help themselves is asked for help by someone else, making a bad situation even more frustrating.

After the mountains fall, the valleys will also fall in a few days.

This expression refers to the inevitable ripple effect of a major catastrophe or the downfall of a powerful entity. It implies that when great people or large institutions collapse, those who depend on them or are associated with them (the smaller entities) will eventually face the same fate soon after.

The stomach burn of a young girl.

This expression refers to the intense, often irrational jealousy or envy felt by a young person towards others. It is commonly used to describe the competitive nature or the 'evil eye' (disti) that arises from youth when they see others succeeding or possessing something they desire.

Will a household that fell into the Ganges ever reach the shore?

This proverb is used to describe a situation or life that has been completely ruined or devastated beyond recovery. Just as something swept away by a powerful river like the Ganges is unlikely to be recovered, a family or business that has faced total downfall due to bad habits or extreme misfortune rarely returns to its former glory.

A girl who has come from a rich man's house cannot even look at a Kâkarakâya. Kâkarakâya is the Memordica Charantia. Puffed up with pride.

This proverb is used to describe people who live in luxury or abundance and lose touch with reality or fail to notice small, common, or unpleasant things. It implies that when one is surrounded by riches, they might overlook simple hardships or become indifferent to things that are obvious to others.

A daughter-in-law in a wealthy household cannot see a bitter gourd.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is so overwhelmed by luxury, abundance, or variety that they fail to notice or appreciate simple, common things. It highlights how someone living in extreme plenty might overlook the obvious or the basic necessities because their attention is focused on more extravagant things.

As if the milk arrived the moment the child was born

This expression is used to describe a situation where a necessary resource or solution becomes available exactly when it is needed, often by natural design or perfect timing. It highlights the providence of nature or a stroke of good luck where preparation meets a new requirement perfectly.

'Husband, untie the tethering rope and beat me, I will sing songs', she said.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is shamelessly defiant or ready to endure consequences as long as they get to have the last word or continue their annoying behavior. It depicts a situation where someone is so stubborn that even the threat of punishment doesn't deter them from their antics.

He does not lean forward while drowsy, and he does not fall backward while drunk.

This expression describes a person who is extremely clever, calculating, and avoids making mistakes even in compromised situations. It refers to someone who maintains their composure or strategic advantage under any circumstances, never losing their balance or giving others an opportunity to take advantage of them.

A house that sings (is overly festive/extravagant) will eventually be swept away.

This proverb serves as a warning against excessive extravagance and living beyond one's means. It suggests that a household focused only on constant celebration and wasteful spending, rather than saving or maintenance, will eventually face financial ruin and lose everything.