పరాయి పిల్ల గాజులు పెడితే పైకానికి చేటు

parayi pilla gajulu pedite paikaniki chetu

Translation

If an outsider girl puts on bangles, it's a loss of money.

Meaning

This proverb is used to warn against wasting money on people who have no real connection or loyalty to you. It implies that investing resources in outsiders or ungrateful individuals yields no benefit and results in a total loss, much like spending money on jewelry for a stranger.

Related Phrases

Will the basket tear if you store cotton rolls in it?

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a very light task or a small addition is expected to cause a major problem, which is impossible. It is often used sarcastically when someone overreacts to a minor burden or implies that a small effort will lead to exhaustion or damage.

Like using a rice-pounder for [ carrying ] a bunch of glass bracelets. When put down, the weight of the stick would break the bracelets. A foolish action.

This proverb is used to describe an action where someone uses excessive force or an inappropriate, heavy-handed tool for a delicate task. It highlights the mismatch between the fragility of the object (glass bangles) and the brute force applied (a heavy wooden pestle), inevitably leading to destruction rather than the intended result.

If given during fasting, it descends to the restricted diet level.

This proverb is used to describe an extremely stingy person. It suggests that if someone is so miserly that they hesitate to provide even the bare minimum during a period of total fasting (lankanam), they will certainly compromise or reduce the quality further when it comes to a regular restricted diet (pathyam). It implies that a person's stingy nature remains constant or worsens regardless of the necessity.

If one remains on an empty stomach on the wedding day itself, will there be children in the future?

This expression is used to highlight a situation where things go wrong at the very beginning of an endeavor. It suggests that if the start is poor or lacking basic necessities, one cannot expect successful results or growth later on. It is a cautionary remark about poor planning or bad omens at the start of a project.

If one is starving on the wedding day itself, can they expect to have children later?

This expression is used to highlight poor planning or a bad start to an endeavor. If basic necessities or the primary goal cannot be met at the very beginning (the wedding feast), it is unrealistic to expect future success or growth (children). It is often used to criticize someone who fails at the initial, most important stage of a project.

Sacrificing a pig to save a chicken.

This expression is used to describe a situation where there is an overwhelming mismatch in strength or capability between two sides. It suggests that comparing the two is futile because one clearly dominates the other, often used in a sarcastic or dismissive tone regarding a one-sided competition.

If the right foot is placed, the clan is destroyed; if the left foot is placed, the lineage is destroyed.

This is a sarcastic or satirical expression used to describe a person who is perceived as extremely unlucky or bringing misfortune regardless of what they do. It is often used to mock superstitious beliefs or to highlight a 'no-win' situation where every action of a particular person is blamed for a disaster.

When bangled hands make a jingling sound, the house shines with prosperity.

This proverb highlights the traditional belief that the presence and active involvement of a woman in a household bring vibrancy, joy, and prosperity. The 'jingling of bangles' symbolizes her work and presence, which is seen as essential for a happy and lively home.

If suggested to fast, they settle for a strict diet.

This expression is used to describe someone who tries to negotiate or compromise when they are asked to do something difficult or extreme. It refers to a person who, when told to fast completely (Lankanam) for health reasons, tries to negotiate down to a restricted diet (Pathyam) instead of following the full instruction.

Tall is vulnerable to wind, short is vulnerable to water

This proverb highlights that every physical trait has its own disadvantage depending on the situation. Just as a tall tree or person is more likely to be affected by strong winds (or storms), a short person or object is more likely to be submerged or affected by rising waters (or floods). It is used to suggest that no one is perfectly safe or superior in all circumstances.