పొయ్యి ఊదలేనమ్మ ఏడు మనువులు పోయిందట
poyyi udalenamma edu manuvulu poyindata
The woman who couldn't blow into the hearth stove married seven times.
This proverb is used to mock someone who blames their environment or circumstances for their own lack of skill or basic competence. In this context, a woman keeps leaving her husbands (marrying seven times) thinking her inability to cook/light the stove is their fault, rather than realizing she is the one who lacks the skill. It refers to people who switch jobs or relationships frequently instead of fixing their own shortcomings.
Related Phrases
తిండిలేనమ్మ తిరుణాళ్లకు పోతే ఎక్కనూ దిగనూ సరిపోయిందట
tindilenamma tirunallaku pote ekkanu diganu saripoyindata
When a woman who had no food went to a fair, her time was spent just climbing up and down.
This proverb describes a situation where a person lacks basic resources but attempts a grand or busy task, only to find that the effort required for the logistics of the task consumes all their energy without yielding any benefit. It is used to mock people who participate in events they cannot afford or sustain, resulting in unnecessary struggle instead of enjoyment.
మూడు మనువులు వెళ్ళినా, పొయ్యి ఊదమన్నారు
mudu manuvulu vellina, poyyi udamannaru
Even after going through three marriages, they told her to blow the stove.
This expression highlights that no matter how much experience or seniority one gains, they cannot escape basic chores or fundamental responsibilities. It is often used to describe situations where a person's status or age doesn't exempt them from hard work or routine tasks.
చింత లేనమ్మ సంతలో నిద్రపోయిందట
chinta lenamma santalo nidrapoyindata
The woman with no worries slept in the marketplace.
This proverb describes a state of absolute peace of mind. When a person is free from anxieties, burdens, or guilt, they can sleep soundly anywhere, even in a noisy and chaotic environment like a busy marketplace. It is used to highlight that mental peace is the key to rest.
వంగలేనమ్మ వొంక పట్టుకుని ఏడ్చింది
vangalenamma vonka pattukuni edchindi
The woman who couldn't bend cried about a curve (fault) in the ground.
This proverb describes a person who hides their own inability or lack of skill by blaming external circumstances or finding minor faults in the environment. It is used to mock someone who makes excuses for their failures.
దమయంతి పెళ్ళైనా ఏకులరాట్నం తప్పలేదు
damayanti pellaina ekularatnam tappaledu
Even after marrying Damayanti, the spinning wheel couldn't be avoided.
This proverb describes a situation where despite a significant positive change or a high-status association (like marrying a queen or a legendary figure), one's hard labor or fundamental struggles remain unchanged. It is used when a person's fate or drudgery persists regardless of improved circumstances.
ఎదుటి పొయ్యి మండితే తన పొయ్యిలో నీళ్లు పోసుకున్నట్టు
eduti poyyi mandite tana poyyilo nillu posukunnattu
When the fire was lighted in the opposite house, he threw water on his own.
This expression describes the irrational and self-destructive nature of extreme jealousy. It refers to someone who is so consumed by envy of another person's success or prosperity that they sabotage their own progress or well-being out of spite or sheer frustration.
An envious man waxes lean with the fatness of his neighbour. Envy is its own torturer. ( Danish ? ) * Wer einen lobt in Praesentia und schimpft in Absentia, den hole die Pestilentia. † Avindayg er sin egen Böddel.
కుమ్మరికి పశువులు పోయినా, మారటతల్లికి బిడ్డలు పోయినా బాధలేదు
kummariki pashuvulu poyina, maratatalliki biddalu poyina badhaledu
Neither the potter cares if the cattle are lost, nor the stepmother cares if the children are lost.
This proverb describes extreme indifference or lack of empathy. It highlights situations where individuals are completely unconcerned about losses that do not directly affect their personal interests or emotional bonds. It is used to criticize someone's cold-heartedness or apathy towards the misfortune of others.
దంచలేనమ్మ ఊది ఊది చూచిందట
danchalenamma udi udi chuchindata
The woman who couldn't pound (grain) just kept blowing on it.
This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks the skill or will to complete a difficult task and instead makes excuses or performs unnecessary, superficial actions to appear busy or to delay the work. It is similar to the English idea of 'making a show of effort' while avoiding the actual labor.
అత్తలేనమ్మ ఉత్తమురాలు, మామలేనమ్మ మరీభాగ్యశాలి.
attalenamma uttamuralu, mamalenamma maribhagyashali.
The woman without a mother-in-law is the best woman; the woman without a father-in-law is even more fortunate.
This is a humorous and sarcastic proverb reflecting the traditional domestic tensions in joint families. It suggests that a daughter-in-law feels most peaceful and free when she is not under the supervision or restrictions of her in-laws, particularly the mother-in-law who historically held authority over the household.
తొక్కలేనమ్మ తొక్కులో నీళ్లు పోసిందట
tokkalenamma tokkulo nillu posindata
The woman who couldn't peel (the mangoes) poured water into the pickle.
This proverb is used to describe a person who lacks basic skills or competence, but attempts to 'help' or perform a task only to ruin it completely. It highlights how an incompetent person's intervention often makes a situation worse.