Patience

If you wait and wait only to marry a digger, you will carry baskets until death.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone waits a long time for a perfect opportunity or a better life, but ultimately makes a poor decision that leads to lifelong hardship. It highlights the irony of being patient only to settle for a demanding or exhausting outcome.

O person with no hurry, go ahead and start a school

This proverb is used to sarcastically remark on how much patience is required to run a school or teach children. It implies that if someone has an abundance of time or patience, they should try managing a school to truly test it. It is often used when someone is being overly slow or indifferent to time.

Mounting a ladder with a jar of ghî in one's arms.

This expression refers to undertaking a task that is extremely precarious and demands absolute focus. Just as one must be incredibly careful not to spill the precious ghee or fall while climbing a ladder, this phrase is used to describe a situation where even a small mistake could lead to a significant loss or failure.

Just because a shoe bit us, would we bite a leather bag?

This proverb is used to illustrate that we should not lower ourselves to the level of someone who has wronged us or behave foolishly in an attempt to get revenge. If a shoe pinches or 'bites' the foot, it is illogical to bite back a leather bag (the material source). It emphasizes maintaining one's dignity and choosing sensible reactions over impulsive, retaliatory ones.

Do not pull until it snaps

This expression is used to advise someone not to push a situation, argument, or relationship to its breaking point. It emphasizes the importance of knowing when to stop before causing irreversible damage.

If left alone it ripens, if plucked out it withers.

This proverb emphasizes the importance of patience and letting things take their natural course. Just as a fruit needs time on the tree to ripen and will wither if picked too early, certain situations or relationships require time and space to mature. It is used to advise against being impulsive or forceful.

Will the field yield fruit as soon as fertilizer is applied?

This expression emphasizes that everything takes its own time to yield results. Just as a crop doesn't grow instantly after being fertilized, efforts require patience and time before one can see the benefits. It is used to advise someone against expecting immediate success or results right after starting a task.

When time is bad, one must hold a donkey's feet.

This proverb suggests that when a person is in a difficult situation or facing bad times, they might have to humble themselves or seek help from someone they normally look down upon to get their work done. It emphasizes the importance of pragmatism and patience over pride during adversity.

If a docile ox gets irritated, it will ruin the entire fence.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a normally calm, patient, or quiet person loses their temper. It implies that when a gentle person finally gets angry, the resulting damage or outburst is significantly greater and more destructive than that of a naturally aggressive person.

The village can do nothing to a person who remains silent.

This expression emphasizes the power of silence and patience. It suggests that if a person remains calm, avoids unnecessary arguments, and stays silent during a conflict, even an entire community or a large group cannot harm them or provoke them into trouble. It is often used to advise someone to stay quiet to avoid escalating a situation.

The astringency of flowers is what becomes honey

This proverb suggests that raw, bitter, or difficult beginnings can lead to sweet and rewarding outcomes. It is used to encourage patience and perseverance, highlighting that hard work or initial unpleasantness eventually transforms into something valuable and beneficial.

While she was going round the holy fig tree, she felt for signs of pregnancy. Pradakshana is " reverential salutation, by circumambulating a person or object, keeping the right side towards them." ( Wilson ). Aivattha is the Ficus Religiosa. Expecting the result to be obtained at the very commencement of an enterprize.

This proverb is used to describe extreme impatience or the unrealistic expectation of immediate results for a process that naturally takes time. Just as walking around a sacred tree (a traditional ritual for fertility) cannot result in an instant pregnancy, many goals require patience and consistent effort rather than instant gratification.

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If it thunders before the Kârte, if you are hasty in a business, it will be spoilt. Kârte is " the particular constellation of the 27 in which the sun happens to be." The Kârte here spoken of is that in which rain should fall. If it thunders before the time, the rain will be insufficient. Ognu coasa ha cagions,

This proverb emphasizes the importance of timing and composure. Just as unseasonal thunder is often a sign of poor weather or lack of rain for crops, being overly anxious or impatient (flustered) before starting a task leads to poor results. It suggests that patience and waiting for the right moment are essential for success.

Will the number decrease by drying ? A reply given to a cheat who thus attempted to account for a deficiency in the quantity of vegetables.

This expression is used to signify that constant worrying or repeatedly calculating a loss does not diminish the intensity of the problem. It implies that certain natural or inevitable processes cannot be altered simply by overthinking or obsession; action or patience is required instead.

By singing repeatedly, the melody improves; by eating repeatedly, even Neem tastes sweet.

This proverb emphasizes that practice makes perfect and that persistence can make even difficult or unpleasant tasks easier over time. Note: The user provided 'rogam' (disease), but the traditional proverb is 'vemu' (neem), implying that constant habituation changes one's perspective or skill.

Like a cat lying in wait for a mouse.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone is waiting stealthily or patiently for an opportunity to strike or catch another person off guard. It highlights a state of extreme vigilance, predatory caution, or a hidden threat lurking nearby.

Does a stitch (on a garment) appear as soon as you eat a crepe?

This expression is used to highlight that some results take time and cannot be achieved instantly. It suggests that actions and their consequences aren't always immediate, emphasizing patience or the realistic timeline of a process.

Burning the joint after knowing it, and waiting for the right moment after knowing the convenience.

This proverb emphasizes the importance of timing and precision. It suggests that one should understand the root of a problem or the specific situation (the joint) before acting (cauterizing/burning), and should wait for the most opportune moment to strike or make a move.

Even poverty, if kept for seven years, might come to use.

This proverb suggests that everything, no matter how seemingly worthless or negative, can have utility over a long period. It is used to justify keeping old or currently useless items because their value might be realized in the future. It highlights the virtue of patience and the idea that nothing is truly waste.

Will a fruit which ripens not of itself ripen if you kick it? Advice is thrown away upon the headstrong.

This proverb is used to explain that certain things cannot be forced and require their own natural time to happen. Just as a raw fruit cannot be forced to ripen instantly through physical force or aggression, results in life often require patience and the right conditions rather than coercion.