Social Hierarchy

Crow's noise

This expression is used to describe a loud, harsh, or annoying commotion caused by many people talking or shouting at once. It compares a chaotic and noisy environment to the unpleasant cawing of a flock of crows.

Reddy came, start again; King came, do it all over again, he said.

This proverb describes a situation where someone is forced to restart their work repeatedly due to the arrival of various authorities or distractions. It is used to mock inefficiency, lack of progress caused by constant interruptions, or people who pretend to be busy by starting over whenever someone important watches.

If you hit a dog, it might learn sense, but if you hit a laborer, will they learn sense?

This proverb highlights the difference between instinctive behavior and human dignity. It suggests that while animals might be disciplined through force, humans (especially workers) should be treated with respect and fair wages rather than harshness or exploitation, as physical aggression does not foster productivity or character in people.

Look at the mother before choosing the daughter, look at the milk yield before choosing the buffalo.

This proverb suggests that characteristics are often inherited or influenced by origins. Just as a buffalo's value is judged by its milk production, a daughter's character and qualities can often be understood by observing her mother. It is used as a piece of advice when considering marriage alliances or evaluating someone based on their upbringing and lineage.

The woman who left the school becomes the leader of the market.

This proverb is used to describe someone who lacks formal discipline, education, or character, yet tries to act as an authority or dominant figure in public spaces. It signifies that those who abandon structured learning or moral boundaries often end up seeking attention or control in rowdy or unrefined environments.

Like cranes standing among the swans of the pond.

This expression is used to describe a situation where an unworthy or inferior person is found in the company of noble, wise, or talented individuals. It highlights the stark contrast in character, grace, or intellect, suggesting that an out-of-place person stands out for the wrong reasons among those who are truly refined.

When a lamp was lit for the goddess Dibbalamma, a pig-husband came and knocked it over.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where an effort made with good intentions or a small act of devotion is immediately ruined by someone uncouth, clumsy, or undeserving. It highlights how the actions of a crude person can spoil a delicate or sacred task.

Does a low-bred dog recognize superior people?

This expression is used to describe individuals who lack character or breeding and fail to show respect or recognize the greatness of noble people. Just as a stray dog barks at everyone regardless of their stature, an uncivilized person cannot distinguish between the common and the distinguished.

The gardener knows the taste of the brinjal; the king knows the taste of the plantain. Brinjals should be cooked and eaten fresh from the garden. Plantains when used in an unripe state as a vegetable, should be kept a few days. Before the brinjals are set before a king they have lost some of their flavour, and as the gardener cannot afford to keep the plantains he plucks, he cooks them before they are ready for the pot.

This proverb highlights how appreciation and value vary based on perspective and social standing. The gardener knows the true quality of the eggplant because he grows it and sees it daily (practical knowledge), while the King appreciates the banana as it is a staple of royal feasts and luxury (refined or final enjoyment). It is used to say that different people have different expertise or preferences based on their life experiences.

A quarter more for every seer.

This expression is used to describe a situation where one person encounters someone even more capable, clever, or dominant than themselves. It is equivalent to the English idiom 'to meet one's match' or 'diamond cuts diamond.' It highlights that there is always someone superior to any given individual.

A stubborn person is more powerful than a king.

This proverb highlights that sheer persistence or obstinacy can sometimes overcome even the highest authority or power. It is used to describe situations where a person's refusal to back down eventually forces others (even those in power) to give in.

Either a widow's son or a king's son is needed.

This proverb highlights the importance of having influence or survival skills to navigate the world. A king's son has power and resources through his status, while a widow's son is often perceived as someone who has grown up tough, resourceful, and street-smart out of necessity. It implies that to succeed or get things done, one needs either authority or grit.

Better be the hand-maid of a great man than the wife of a low fellow. Better fare hard with good men than feast with bad.

This proverb emphasizes that it is better to serve a noble or powerful person than to be intimately associated with someone of poor character or low status. It suggests that even a subordinate role under a virtuous or strong leader offers more dignity and security than a higher-ranking position with a base or wicked individual.

Death is a better refuge for a man than living on a dowry.

This proverb emphasizes the social stigma and loss of self-respect associated with a man living off his wife's wealth or dowry (Aranam). It suggests that for a man with dignity, death is preferable to the humiliation of being dependent on his in-laws' property or a dowry-based lifestyle.

An ascetic's wife is neither a widow nor a married woman with a husband.

This expression refers to a person who is stuck in a state of limbo or an ambiguous situation where they cannot benefit from either side of a status. Just as a Sanyasi (ascetic) is alive but has renounced the world, his wife remains technically married but cannot enjoy the companionship or status of a normal married life, yet she isn't a widow either. It is used to describe situations where someone is neither here nor there, lacking a clear identity or benefit.

If the mother-in-law live by begging will the son-in-law have a feast? Manugudupu is " a final entertainment given by the bride's parents to the bridegroom, after the conclusion of the whole marriage ceremonies." ( Brown. )

This proverb is used to describe a situation where the primary person or provider is struggling for basic necessities, yet someone dependent on them expects luxury or special treatment. It highlights the irony of demanding more than what is available or realistic given the circumstances.

Like selling fruits by using the name of the tree.

This expression is used to describe someone who leverages the fame, reputation, or hard work of their ancestors or superiors to gain personal profit or success without putting in any effort of their own.

Like a torch lit from a small lamp becoming greater than the lamp itself.

This expression is used to describe a situation where a student, protégé, or child surpasses their teacher, mentor, or parent in fame, skill, or status. Even though the source (the lamp) was small, the outcome (the torch) is much more powerful and bright.

The man who has mounted an elephant will not be afraid at the bark of a dog. He who is in favor with the great will not fear the enmity of the mean.

This proverb suggests that a person of high character, power, or confidence should not be bothered by the petty criticisms or insults of small-minded people. It is used to advise someone to ignore insignificant distractions or critics when they are focused on a great goal.

Even if a tiger chases you, do not go to the landlord's doorstep.

This proverb highlights the extreme fear or oppression associated with powerful authorities or landlords in the past. It implies that the consequences of facing a ruthless person's wrath or legal/financial entrapment are worse than the danger of a wild animal.