Ungratefulness

Give me the usual four (beatings) and put the latch outside, he said.

This expression refers to someone who is so accustomed to a routine of punishment or mistreatment that they accept it as a formality to get it over with. It is used to describe a person who lacks self-respect or has become completely desensitized to shame or consequences.

Like saying if it is not enough, it is useless

This expression describes a dismissive attitude where someone devalues or discards something simply because it isn't sufficient for their specific needs, even if it has inherent value. It is often used to criticize people who make excuses or pretend that things they cannot fully attain are worthless.

When served in a leaf for the needy, he asked to be served in a bowl instead.

This proverb describes someone who is in desperate need but still acts picky or makes unreasonable demands. It is used to criticize people who, despite being in a position where they should be grateful for any help, show arrogance or dissatisfaction with the way they are being assisted.

There is no gratitude for the one who gave a house or for the one who served buttermilk.

This proverb highlights the irony of human ingratitude. It suggests that people often fail to show appreciation or give credit even to those who have provided significant help (like a home) or basic hospitality (like buttermilk). It is used when someone's kindness is met with indifference or negativity.

Wife became jaggery, mother became poison.

This proverb describes a situation where a person, usually a man, becomes so infatuated or influenced by his wife that he begins to view his own mother with hostility or disdain. It is used to criticize someone who forgets their parents' sacrifices and treats them poorly after marriage, prioritizing their spouse to an extreme and unfair degree.

Like punching the very breast that provided milk.

This proverb describes extreme ingratitude or biting the hand that feeds you. It refers to a person who harms or insults someone who has nurtured, helped, or supported them in their time of need.

If the vow I made works and my husband loses both his eyes, I will sacrifice a six-legged creature to God, she said.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is foolish, ungrateful, or hypocritical. It refers to a woman who prays for a 'result' that is actually a disaster (her husband going blind) and promises a sacrifice (a six-legged creature, which is usually a common insect or bug) that is worthless. It mocks those who make grand-sounding but meaningless or malicious vows.

He raised the dog like a horse, but when the thief came, the owner (Reddy) had to bark.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where one invests heavily in someone or something to perform a specific duty, but when the time comes, that person fails to act, forcing the provider to do the work themselves. It highlights the irony of wasted efforts on incompetent or ungrateful dependents.

The dog that was pampered bit the snout (face).

This proverb describes a situation where someone who was treated with excessive affection or leniency turns around and causes harm or shows disrespect to their benefactor. It is used to warn against the dangers of over-pampering or being too indulgent with people who lack character or discipline, as they may eventually take advantage of that kindness.

Though he eat ten Tûms of food he will say he is starving ; and though he eat five Tûms, he will say it is a fast.

This proverb is used to describe an insatiable appetite or a situation where no matter how much is consumed or provided, it never seems to be enough or satisfying. It can also refer to people who constantly complain of lack despite having plenty.

Uncooked food, clothes for serving.

This expression is used to describe a person who is extremely lazy or parasitic. It refers to someone who wants to eat without the effort of cooking and expects to be dressed up just to be served, essentially wanting all the benefits of life without doing any of the work.

A free horse and a stick of Tangedu.

This proverb is used to describe someone who uses resources recklessly or wastefully just because they obtained them for free or without any effort. It highlights the human tendency to lack care or responsibility for things that cost them nothing.

Unnecessary or unpaid hard labor

This expression refers to performing excessive, strenuous work without getting any recognition, proper compensation, or productive result. It is often used to describe drudgery or a thankless job where the effort put in is far greater than the value received.

When requested, 'Mother-in-law, mother-in-law, please serve some food,' she replied, 'I will apply lime (chunam) instead.'

This proverb describes a situation where a person expects help or kindness but receives something harmful or insulting in return. It highlights the behavior of mean-spirited or heartless people who mock others' genuine needs or suffering instead of showing empathy.

Having mounted [the tree] and felt [the fruit], he came down again and threw stones at it.

This proverb describes someone who thoroughly inspects or enjoys something, only to criticize or devalue it immediately afterward. It is used to point out hypocrisy or the ungrateful behavior of people who benefit from a situation and then speak ill of it.

As soon as food is secured, the clan is forgotten.

This proverb describes people who forget their roots, identity, or those who helped them once they achieve financial stability or prosperity. It is used to criticize ungratefulness and the tendency to distance oneself from one's origins after attaining wealth.

Father's day is a cradle, mother's day is a cradle.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is extremely lazy or pampered, expecting to be served and comforted constantly regardless of the occasion or who is providing for them. It signifies a life of idle luxury or a refusal to take up responsibilities, likening their existence to a baby forever swaying in a cradle.

Like drinking milk and then punching the breast.

This proverb is used to describe extreme ingratitude or betrayal. It refers to a situation where someone receives help, nourishment, or kindness from a benefactor and then proceeds to harm or insult that very person. It is equivalent to the English expression 'biting the hand that feeds you.'

Lusting after vomited food.

This proverb is used to describe a person who returns to something they once rejected or discarded with disgust. It highlights a lack of self-respect or dignity when someone seeks out a thing, person, or position they previously deemed worthless or beneath them.

Is it right to fight over the sealing flour after everything is finished?

This proverb describes a situation where someone raises a trivial or petty dispute after a major task or significant event has been successfully completed. It is used to mock people who focus on insignificant details or leftovers instead of celebrating the successful conclusion of a large project.