Ungratefulness

A (woman) secretly measures the length of a saree given out of pity.

It is like looking a gift horse in the mouth. Without being grateful, some people find fault even with generous people.

She ate oily rice and stretched her legs towards the well.

This proverb is used to describe someone who becomes arrogant or careless immediately after getting their needs met or gaining a little comfort. It highlights the behavior of being ungrateful or inviting trouble right after enjoying a benefit.

Even if you nourish a snake with milk, it will not stop biting.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is inherently wicked or ungrateful. It suggests that even if you treat someone very well or show them extreme kindness, their true negative nature will eventually reveal itself and they may still harm you.

When someone kindly gave water for thirst, they complained that the village's water-trough was boiling.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone shows kindness or helps another person, but the recipient, instead of being grateful, finds faults or makes unreasonable demands. It highlights extreme ingratitude and the habit of complaining even when receiving help.

If he puts a little salt in the palm of your hand, you should think of it for six months. The duty of gratitude.

This expression emphasizes the virtue of gratitude. It suggests that one should be thankful and remember even the smallest act of kindness or the tiniest gift (symbolized by a pinch of salt) for a long time. It is used to teach people not to be ungrateful for the help they receive.

Like sucking the breast and then punching the chest.

This expression is used to describe extreme ingratitude or backstabbing. It refers to a situation where someone receives vital help or nurturance from a benefactor and then proceeds to harm or betray that very person. It is equivalent to the English idiom 'to bite the hand that feeds you'.

Saying 'To hell with your wedding, come attend my death anniversary ceremony'

This expression describes an extremely selfish or insensitive person who disregards someone else's auspicious or important event (like a wedding) and expects them to prioritize their own unfortunate or minor situation (like a funeral ritual). It is used to mock someone's self-centeredness and lack of empathy.

Father's day is a cradle, mother's day is a cradle.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is extremely lazy or pampered, expecting to be served and comforted constantly regardless of the occasion or who is providing for them. It signifies a life of idle luxury or a refusal to take up responsibilities, likening their existence to a baby forever swaying in a cradle.

I cannot stay after eating, take it and bury it.

This proverb is used to describe a person who is extremely lazy or ungrateful. It refers to someone who wants to enjoy a meal but refuses to do even the smallest bit of work or cleaning afterward, expecting others to handle everything, including 'burying' or clearing away the remains.

There are a thousand people to point out defects in a house already built.

This proverb is used to describe how people find it easy to criticize or find faults in a completed task, even though they did not contribute to the effort. It highlights the human tendency to offer unsolicited advice or pinpoint mistakes after the hard work is done.

You are tired of eating bread, but look at me and my fun.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone is bored or dissatisfied with a predictable, monotonous lifestyle and is being enticed or mocked by someone offering a seemingly more exciting but potentially less stable alternative. It highlights the human tendency to undervalue what they already have when they become habituated to it.

Like devouring the one who saved you.

This expression describes extreme ingratitude or betrayal. It is used when someone harms or ruins the very person who helped, supported, or saved them in their time of need.

Eat the one who saved you, he said.

This expression refers to extreme ingratitude or backstabbing. It describes a situation where someone harms or betrays the person who provided them with protection, help, or a livelihood. It is used to criticize those who bite the hand that feeds them.

The over liberal man is ruined ; when a man dies, his debts go with him.

This proverb highlights two harsh realities of life: people only appreciate those who are generous or provide help, and once a person dies, their debts and obligations often perish with them, making it impossible to recover what was owed. It is used to describe the nature of gratitude and the finality of death regarding liabilities.

Counting the rafters of the house where you were fed.

This expression is used to describe an act of extreme ingratitude or treachery. It refers to someone who seeks to harm or find faults in the person or household that provided them with food and shelter. It is commonly used to criticize those who betray their benefactors.

Even if it is his mother's wedding locket, a goldsmith cannot refrain from stealing some gold.

This proverb highlights that some people are so habituated to their vices or professional dishonesty that they cannot make exceptions even for their own kin. It is used to describe an ingrained habit or a nature that remains unchanged regardless of the circumstances or emotional ties.

Desire for the hanging pot, but disgust for the granary.

This expression describes a person who desires something small or unattainable (represented by 'Utti', a hanging net for pots) while neglecting or showing disdain for something abundant and valuable already in their possession (represented by 'Putti', a large grain measurement/granary). It is used to mock those who lack a sense of priority or fail to appreciate their own resources.

Like a dog that fell into a grain pit trying to bite the person coming to rescue it.

This expression is used to describe a situation where someone who is in a deep mess or trouble acts ungratefully or aggressively toward the person trying to help them. It refers to misplaced hostility from a person in a desperate situation.

Having mounted [the tree] and felt [the fruit], he came down again and threw stones at it.

This proverb describes someone who thoroughly inspects or enjoys something, only to criticize or devalue it immediately afterward. It is used to point out hypocrisy or the ungrateful behavior of people who benefit from a situation and then speak ill of it.

Rice roti for the nagging one, and a drop of ghee to wash the mouth.

This expression is used to describe someone who is extremely demanding, fastidious, or difficult to please, yet expects the most luxurious treatment. It highlights the irony of providing high-quality items (like rice roti and ghee) to someone who does nothing but complain or nag.