ఆడదాని పుట్టుకకంటే అడవిలో మ్రానిగా పుట్టడం మేలు

adadani puttukakante adavilo mraniga puttadam melu

Translation

It is better to be born as a tree in a forest than to be born as a woman.

Meaning

This traditional expression reflects the historical hardships, lack of freedom, and societal constraints faced by women. It suggests that the struggles of a woman's life are so burdensome that the silent existence of a tree in the wilderness would be preferable.

Related Phrases

It is better to keep swaying than to sit idle.

This proverb emphasizes the importance of staying active or doing some form of work, however small or repetitive, rather than being completely unproductive. It suggests that even minor effort is superior to total laziness or inactivity.

Suspicion was born first, and woman was born after.

This is a popular Telugu proverb used to remark that suspicion or jealousy is an inherent trait often attributed to women. It is typically used in a lighthearted or critical manner when a woman expresses doubt or mistrust towards her partner or a situation.

If one stays quiet, they are like a wild deer.

This proverb is used to describe someone who is exceptionally quiet, shy, or gentle. Just as a deer in the forest remains silent and avoids confrontation, it refers to a person who minds their own business and does not create trouble or noise.

It is better to be born as a tree in the forest than to be the youngest among brothers.

This proverb highlights the traditional struggles of the youngest male sibling in a large joint family. Historically, the youngest brother often had to serve the elder brothers, follow their commands, and received less authority or inheritance, leading to the dramatic comparison that even being an inanimate tree in a wild forest is more peaceful than such a life of subservience.

Lame in the village, a deer in the forest

This proverb is used to describe a person who pretends to be weak, lazy, or incapable when asked to do work at home or in the village, but becomes extremely active, energetic, and agile when it concerns their own interests or outside activities. It highlights the hypocrisy of selective effort.

Sumangali status (being a married woman) is better than ornamentation.

This proverb emphasizes that the essence or the basic state of being (in this context, being a married woman with a living husband) is more valuable than external decorations or fancy clothing. It is used to suggest that substance and core identity are more important than superficial appearances.

If a girl is born, it is like half of one's lifespan is swallowed.

This is an old, traditional saying reflecting the societal burden and financial anxiety parents used to feel regarding the responsibilities of raising a daughter, particularly concerning dowry and marriage expenses. In modern contexts, it is often cited to discuss or critique historical patriarchal attitudes.

It is better to be born as a tree in a forest than to be born as a woman.

This traditional expression reflects the historical hardships and social constraints faced by women in society. It is used to lament the difficulties, lack of freedom, or suffering associated with a woman's life, suggesting that an inanimate object in nature has a more peaceful existence.

It is better to be born as a thorny acacia bush in a forest than to be born as the eldest son of a household.

This proverb highlights the immense responsibilities, burdens, and expectations placed upon the eldest son in a traditional Indian family. It implies that the hardships of managing family affairs, providing for siblings, and fulfilling parental expectations are so taxing that a life of a useless bush in the wild seems peaceful by comparison.

It is said that suspicion was born first, and then woman was born.

This is a traditional Telugu proverb used to humorously or critically remark that women are inherently more suspicious or prone to doubting others. It is often cited when a woman expresses distrust or skepticism without immediate proof.