ఏతి అంటే ప్రీతి అంటాడు

eti ante priti antadu

Translation

When one says he's going, the other says he's dying.

Meaning

This expression is used to describe someone who is extremely agreeable, a sycophant, or someone who blindly agrees with whatever another person says just to please them, often without thinking or having an original opinion. It suggests a 'yes-man' attitude where the person simply rhymes along with the speaker's words.

Notes

Spirit of contradiction.

Related Phrases

If he says it's Śiva's bull, it is Śiva's bull; if he says it's a pig, it is a pig.

This expression describes extreme sycophancy, blind obedience, or a 'yes-man' attitude. It is used to characterize someone who agrees with everything a powerful person says, even if the statements are contradictory or obviously false, just to please them.

Said of the power of a great and unjust man.

Although a man besmear himself with a Puṭṭi of castor oil and roll [ among the grain ] only what sticks, will stick to him, what does not, won't.

This proverb emphasizes fatalism or destiny. It suggests that despite extreme efforts or preparations (represented by rubbing oil and rolling), a person can only gain what is fated for them. It is used to describe situations where results are dictated by luck or destiny rather than just hard work.

A Puṭṭi is 500 lbs. A man can only obtain that which his destiny has prepared for him. Every man hath his lot. No butter will stick to his bread.

Calling himself the head merchant, he says there are only three 'giddas'.

This expression is used to describe a person who talks big or holds an authoritative position but lacks basic knowledge or competency. A 'gidda' is a small unit of measurement; a merchant not knowing standard measures is ironic. It highlights the gap between one's self-importance and their actual ability.

If you say it's a bull, it's a bull; if you say it's a pig, it's a pig.

This expression describes a person who is a 'yes-man' or someone who blindly agrees with whatever an influential person says, regardless of the truth or logic. It highlights submissiveness or a lack of independent judgment, often used to mock someone who changes their stance just to please a superior.

If one say "Dehi" (give) you should not reply "Nâsti" (there is not ). Alms should never be refused.

This proverb emphasizes the virtue of charity and the importance of helping those in need. It suggests that when a beggar or a person in distress seeks help, one should never flatly refuse or turn them away empty-handed if they have the means to give.

* Ledigeld is hongers moeder, en van diefte volle broeder. † Gud giver hver Fugl Sin Fode, men kaster den ei Reden til ham.

The fate is proportional to the mind.

This proverb suggests that one's future or destination is determined by their thoughts, wisdom, and mindset. If you have a good and focused mind, you will reach a good position in life; essentially, your attitude dictates your altitude.

Vultures love dead cattle.

This proverb describes people who take pleasure in the misfortunes or ruin of others. Just as a vulture looks for carcasses rather than living prey, malicious or opportunistic people thrive on others' failures or tragedies.

Pests (bad luck) are contagious, but wealth (good luck) is not.

This proverb is used to explain that misfortune, bad habits, or diseases spread easily from person to person, whereas prosperity, wealth, or good fortune do not transfer as easily. It highlights the difficulty of attaining success compared to the ease of falling into trouble.

The well-rope of Kondaveedu

This expression is used to describe something that is excessively long, tedious, or never-ending. It refers to the deep wells of the Kondaveedu Fort which required incredibly long ropes to draw water, and is typically used today to describe long speeches, never-ending stories, or lengthy queues.

If you say 'wet land', they say 'paddy'.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone makes a very obvious or redundant statement. Since paddy is the primary crop grown on wet lands (tari), saying 'paddy' when 'wet land' is mentioned is an unnecessary clarification of the obvious.