ముసలమ్మ బుజ్జి వణికిస్తావేమి అంటే ఊరకుండి నేనేమి చేస్తానన్నదట.

musalamma bujji vanikistavemi ante urakundi nenemi chestanannadata.

Translation

When asked 'Old woman, why are you shaking the cradle?', she replied, 'What can I do if it doesn't stay still?'

Meaning

This proverb is used to describe a person who tries to hide their natural weakness or inability by pretending it is an intentional act. In the story, an old woman shakes involuntarily due to old age; when asked why she is shaking the baby's cradle, she claims she is doing it on purpose because the cradle wouldn't stay still, hiding her frailty.

Related Phrases

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Do not trust a woman who says she will come, nor a man who says he will give.

This traditional proverb suggests being cautious of empty promises. It highlights that intentions or verbal commitments regarding a woman's arrival or a man's generosity are often unreliable until they actually manifest. It is used as a cautionary advice against blind faith in words alone.

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Do not believe the man who says he will give, nor the woman who says she will come.

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What did the sari do to the moth? What did the field do to the pest?

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He said "I don't know myself, how can I know you?" Said of a supercilious fellow.

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If one becomes stubborn, what can the husband do? If one is placed on a stone, what can the brother-in-law do?

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This proverb is used to describe a person who is so driven by greed or extreme necessity that they abandon all common sense, shame, or fear of consequences. It highlights how someone might do something blatantly foolish or risky just to satisfy their immediate urges or needs.

When an aged lady was asked " Why do you shake your head ?" she replied " Because I have nothing better to do." A foolish question, and a smart answer.

This expression is used to describe a person who does something useless or involuntary and tries to justify it as a meaningful activity or a way to pass time. It highlights the tendency to make excuses for involuntary actions or habits that have no real purpose.

When I said 'I trust you, Ramanna', it's like you tried to make me just like yourself.

This expression is used when someone exploits or betrays the trust of a person who relied on them for help, often by dragging the victim down to their own miserable level or situation instead of uplifting them. It describes a situation where seeking assistance results in being burdened with the helper's own problems.