Social Norms
బాపడికి పప్పాశ, అత్తకు అల్లుడాశ.
bapadiki pappasha, attaku alludasha.
The Brahman is fond of Dâl, the mother-in-law is fond of her son-in-law.
This proverb describes natural or stereotypical desires associated with specific roles. It implies that everyone has their own particular weaknesses, yearnings, or expectations based on their position in life. It is often used to remark on how people are inherently drawn toward things that benefit them or things they are traditionally expected to favor.
ఎద్దును అడిగి గంత కడతారా?
eddunu adigi ganta kadatara?
Are you to ask the bullock before putting on the packsaddle?
This proverb is used to describe situations where a dominant person or authority figure takes action without consulting the subordinate party, especially when the action is mandatory or inevitable. It highlights that in certain power dynamics, consent is not sought because the outcome is already decided.
దొరికిన సొమ్ముకు దొంగవుతాడా?
dorikina sommuku dongavutada?
Will he become a thief for the wealth he found?
This proverb is used to defend someone's character when they find something by chance rather than stealing it. It suggests that finding lost property accidentally does not make a person a criminal or a thief.
పాత పని పట్టకురా, పల్లెకు దొంగవు కాకురా
pata pani pattakura, palleku dongavu kakura
Do not pick up old habits, do not become a thief to the village.
This is an advisory saying often used to warn someone against repeating past mistakes or returning to a life of dishonesty. It emphasizes maintaining one's reputation and integrity within a community. In a broader sense, it means 'don't revert to your bad old ways and don't betray the trust of those around you'.
శతాపరాధములకు సహస్రదండనములు లేవు
shataparadhamulaku sahasradandanamulu levu
There are no thousand punishments for a hundred offenses.
This proverb is used to indicate that the law or justice system has limits. It suggests that a person can only be punished to a certain extent for their crimes, or that one cannot be punished multiple times for the same series of mistakes beyond what is prescribed. It is often used in a legal context or when discussing fairness in retribution.
సిగ్గులేనివాడు శ్రీరంగం పోతే, ఎగ్గులేనివాడు వెంకటగిరి పోయాడట
siggulenivadu shrirangam pote, eggulenivadu venkatagiri poyadata
When a shameless man went to Srirangam, a guiltless (or reckless) man went to Venkatagiri.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where people with similar negative traits or lack of discipline end up in different but equally inappropriate places or situations. It highlights how people who disregard social norms or personal integrity often act without direction or purpose, often used to mock those who try to hide their flaws by traveling or changing locations.
మాల పల్లెలో మంగళాష్టకాలు
mala pallelo mangalashtakalu
The "Eight prayers" said in a Pariah hamlet.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where something sophisticated, sacred, or highly intellectual is presented to an audience that cannot understand, appreciate, or value it. It signifies performing an action that is completely out of place or inappropriate for the given context or setting.
ఇంట గెలిచి రచ్చ గెలువు
inta gelichi rachcha geluvu
Win at home first, then win in the assembly (public).
This proverb emphasizes that one should first achieve success or harmony within their own household or personal life before attempting to achieve success in the outside world or public affairs. It is often used to advise someone to settle internal matters before focusing on external competitions.
అరటిపండ్లు తినే బికారీ! తొక్కలక్కడ పడేసి వెళ్ళకు.
aratipandlu tine bikari! tokkalakkada padesi vellaku.
Banana-eating beggar! Don't throw the peels there and leave.
This expression is used to criticize someone who enjoys a benefit or a resource but behaves irresponsibly by leaving behind a mess or problems for others to clean up. It is often directed at people who show a lack of basic civic sense or accountability after fulfilling their own needs.
చొల్లంగి తీర్థానికి చోడిగింజలంతేసి
chollangi tirthaniki chodiginjalantesi
Ragi seeds for the Chollangi pilgrimage
This expression is used to describe an offering or effort that is disproportionately small or cheap compared to the significance of the event. It highlights a mismatch between a grand occasion and a meager contribution, often used sarcastically to call out stinginess or lack of seriousness.
కొత్త కుండలో జోరీగ చొచ్చినట్టు
kotta kundalo joriga chochchinattu
Like a gad-fly flying into a new pot. The pot contains nothing, and the mouth being narrow, the fly has some difficulty in getting out again.
This expression is used to describe a situation where someone or something creates a lot of noise, disturbance, or chaos in a quiet, pristine, or orderly environment. Just as a fly buzzing inside a resonant new clay pot creates an amplified and annoying sound, this refers to an individual who causes an unnecessary commotion or spoils a peaceful atmosphere.
దొంగవాడి పెళ్ళాం ఏనాటికైనా ముండమోపే
dongavadi pellam enatikaina mundamope
A thief's wife will eventually become a widow.
This proverb suggests that those who engage in illegal or unethical activities will eventually face dire consequences, and their families will inevitably suffer the repercussions. It is used to warn that the fruits of crime are temporary and lead to a tragic end.
బాలల తుమ్ము బాలెంత తుమ్ము మంచిది
balala tummu balenta tummu manchidi
The sneeze of a child and the sneeze of a mother who recently gave birth is good.
In Telugu culture, it is traditionally believed that children and postpartum mothers are highly sensitive to their environment; if they sneeze, it is seen as a positive sign of their body reacting naturally or a sign of vitality rather than a bad omen or serious illness. This proverb is used to reassure parents or family members not to worry about minor sneezes in such cases.
ఊరపిచ్చుక మీద వాడి చంద్రాయుధమా?
urapichchuka mida vadi chandrayudhama?
Using the sharp Chandra-weapon on a common house sparrow?
This expression is used when someone employs excessive force, power, or a highly sophisticated solution for a very small, insignificant problem or a weak opponent. It highlights the mismatch between the intensity of the action and the simplicity of the task.
సుకుడా పుసుకుడా పువ్వులు తెమ్మంటే, తటుకు తటుకున పోయి తంగేడు పువ్వులు తెచ్చాడట
sukuda pusukuda puvvulu temmante, tatuku tatukuna poyi tangedu puvvulu techchadata
When Sukudu Pusukudu was asked to bring flowers, he went quickly and brought Tangedu flowers.
This is a humorous proverb or saying used to describe a person who is dim-witted, overly enthusiastic, or acts without thinking. It mocks someone who, when given a simple or specific task, rushes off impulsively and brings back something completely useless or inappropriate (Tangedu flowers, while beautiful, are wild and often considered inferior for formal rituals compared to garden flowers). It is used when someone's speed in doing a task is not matched by their common sense or quality of work.
వారకాంత జనంబులకు వావి గలదె?
varakanta janambulaku vavi galade?
Do those who are public women (prostitutes) have any sense of family relationship or kinship?
This classical expression or proverb is used to suggest that individuals who lack character or those who treat relationships purely as transactions do not respect or recognize moral boundaries or family ties. It is often used to criticize someone's lack of integrity or their disregard for social and moral decorum.
చేతికి అంటిన జిడ్డు లెక్కకు రాదు
chetiki antina jiddu lekkaku radu
The grease stuck to the hand does not count towards the calculation.
This proverb is used to describe a situation where minor, incidental benefits or small amounts of leftovers are ignored or not considered as part of the actual profit or wealth. It implies that tiny gains that occur during a process are negligible and shouldn't be scrutinized.
సోదిచెప్తే సోదమ్మి, మంత్రమేస్తే మంత్రగత్తె
sodichepte sodammi, mantrameste mantragatte
If she tells fortunes, she is a fortune-teller; if she casts spells, she is a sorceress.
This proverb describes a fickle or judgmental society that labels individuals based on their current actions or whatever role is convenient at the moment. It is often used to highlight how people change their perception or labels for someone based on the circumstances or the specific task being performed.
అప్పు చేసీ పప్పు కూడు.
appu chesi pappu kudu.
Eating well (enjoying comforts) on borrowed money.
Borrowing used to be viewed as undesirable in the past. People, now under the influence of consumerism, want to live on their future income. It is still wisdom to be neither a borrower nor a lender, in the words of Shakespeare.
మున్నూరు శిఖలైనా కూడవచ్చునుగాని, మూడు కొప్పులు కూడరాదు.
munnuru shikhalaina kudavachchunugani, mudu koppulu kudaradu.
Three hundred male tufts can coexist, but three female buns cannot.
This traditional proverb suggests that while a large number of men (symbolized by 'shikha' or tufts) can work together or live in harmony, even a small number of women (symbolized by 'koppu' or hair buns) often find it difficult to coexist without conflict or disagreements. It is typically used to remark on domestic friction or the perceived difficulty of managing multiple women in a single household.