Husband

My husband is so forgetful that he fell into the water and forgot how to swim.

This is a humorous and hyperbolic expression used to describe extreme absent-mindedness or forgetfulness. It is typically used to mock someone who forgets even the most basic or instinctive tasks.

The widow gets only a rude husband

This proverb is used to describe a situation where a person with poor luck or a bad reputation ends up with a partner or a deal that matches their unfortunate circumstances. It implies that one's quality of life or choices are limited by their status or previous misfortunes.

According to my fate, I got a husband with rheumy eyes.

This proverb is used to express disappointment when one's luck or karma leads to a result that is far below expectations. It describes a situation where despite waiting or hoping for something good, one ends up with something mediocre or flawed due to their own misfortune.

The word of a husband who has no control is like the sting of a red ant.

This proverb describes a situation where a person's words or threats have no real impact or authority. Just as a red ant's sting causes temporary irritation but no lasting harm, the words of someone who lacks discipline, consistency, or power are ignored or dismissed by others as insignificant.

The king looks like a male buffalo, and the king's wife looks like Rambha.

This proverb is used to describe a mismatch in a couple's appearance, specifically when the husband is unattractive or uncouth while the wife is exceptionally beautiful and graceful. It highlights a stark contrast in personality or physical traits within a partnership.

The husband's authority and a stubborn paternal aunt.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where someone is doubly burdened or oppressed by two difficult authorities. It typically refers to a woman's hardship when she has to deal with a dominating husband on one side and a relentless, stubborn mother-in-law (paternal aunt) on the other, leaving her with no peace or freedom.

What does it matter if the useless husband is in the lap or behind the fence?

This proverb is used to describe a person who is completely useless or ineffective. If someone cannot provide help, support, or fulfill their responsibilities, their presence or absence makes no difference. It highlights the frustration of dealing with someone who is a burden rather than an asset.

An over-fussy husband doesn't listen if told, and bites if not told.

This expression describes a person who is extremely difficult to please or deal with due to their irrational and contradictory behavior. It is used to refer to individuals who ignore advice or instructions when given, yet become angry or reactive when they are left out of the loop or not informed about the same matter.

She told her husband to go to sleep even if there is no work to do.

This expression is used to describe someone who encourages or justifies laziness and procrastination. It refers to a situation where instead of finding productive work, someone is encouraged to indulge in idleness or rest unnecessarily.

A coin that won't pass and a husband who is not liked.

This expression is used to describe things or people that are useless, burdensome, or of no value in a given situation. Just as a counterfeit or invalid coin cannot be spent, a person who doesn't fulfill their responsibilities or is unwelcome is considered a liability.

There is no famine with time, and no poverty with a husband.

This proverb highlights the cyclical nature of life and traditional social security. It means that just as seasons change and rain eventually brings relief to a drought, a hardworking husband provides stability and ensures that his family does not suffer from extreme poverty. It suggests that patience and a supportive partner are key to overcoming difficult times.

For a wife with stump hands, a husband with stump knees.

This proverb is used to describe a situation where two people who are equally stubborn, incompetent, or flawed are paired together. It suggests that for every difficult or peculiar person, there is an equally matching counterpart, often implying that they deserve each other or that their flaws cancel each other out in a humorous or cynical way.

A mischievous wife and a quarrelsome husband.

This expression is used to describe a couple who are both difficult in their own ways—one being naughty or unruly, and the other being argumentative or picky. It implies a household filled with constant chaos or conflict due to the incompatible or troublesome nature of both partners.

Even after a crore prayers, the husband's nature did not change.

This proverb is used to describe a person who refuses to change their bad behavior or stubborn character despite numerous efforts, prayers, or warnings. It highlights that certain inherent traits are impossible to alter regardless of external intervention.

Will a woman who scolded her husband forgive her brother-in-law?

If someone is bold or disrespectful enough to abuse their own primary authority or loved ones (like a husband in traditional contexts), they certainly won't show mercy or respect to those of lesser status or relation. It is used to describe a person's consistent harsh temperament across all relationships.

What does it matter if a husband who provides neither worldly comfort nor spiritual salvation stays or goes?

This proverb is used to describe a person who is completely useless or provides no value in any aspect of life (neither material nor spiritual). It is typically applied to situations where someone is more of a burden than a help, suggesting that their presence or absence makes no positive difference.

Youth that does not attract the husband is like a flower without fragrance.

This proverb suggests that beauty or youthfulness loses its primary essence if it fails to evoke affection or attraction from one's life partner. It emphasizes that just as a flower is incomplete without its scent, external beauty is considered hollow if it doesn't foster a deep connection or love in a relationship.

If the husband himself has virility, why would there be a need for the goldsmith?

This is a bold Telugu proverb used to imply that if a person is capable and fulfills their responsibilities effectively, there is no need to seek help or favors from outsiders. It highlights self-sufficiency and the importance of a primary person performing their duty so that external intervention becomes unnecessary.

If an old man gets a flirtatious wife, or if a desperate lover gets a talkative mistress, it only leads to sorrow.

This proverb highlights situations of incompatibility and the misery caused by mismatched partnerships. It suggests that a person who cannot keep up with or manage their partner's demanding or excessive nature will eventually suffer mental or physical exhaustion.

Honor not given by the husband, pampering not done by the mother.

This expression refers to something that is impossible to obtain or non-existent. It highlights that if a husband doesn't respect his wife and a mother doesn't pamper her child, one cannot expect to find those feelings from anyone else in the world. It is used to describe a situation where the most basic or essential support is missing.